what should I do about my and my girlfriend first time?

Question

I'm in my 23 now and haven't have sex with any girl before. I have girl friend now and she still virgine too. although we didn't talk about making love but we know the time to do taht will come so soon in the next couple days. I'm a little nervous and I really worry about my girl defloration. if any one can help in this matter I'll be thankful.. what should I do?

Answer 1

first of all set the scene, do alot of foreplay so you are both ready, like finger her, maybe lick her out and just like spend heaps of time doing that sort of stuff first then ask her if she is ready for sex. When you do start having sex be gentle coz it will most likely be really painful for her and you want it to be the best experience for both of you! i hope you enjoy it

Answer 2

Okay.. i'll make a checklist

1. Do that in a proper place
2. Don't start it with alcohol
3. Don't use condom on your first penetration. Use it after.
4. Do that reaaallll slow...
5. Don't use any knowledge from p*rn, use your instinct instead
6. Concentrate on her. Make sure she's ready.
7. Stop when she says it.
8. Stop if she's bleeding and it drops on the sheet (it means the bleeding is beyond normal and she's hurt)
9. Try to make you both as relax as possible.
10. One of you might back out in the last minute. Respect it.
11. Ignore checklist 1 to 10 and have fun anyway... I wish you a very good luck ...

Answer 3

It's doubtful you are going to "make love." You are talking about having sex and screwing up both your virginity for the life partner you two are going to marry. It just may not be to each other. So, hold off until your are married. However, have a supply of condoms on hand just in case and make sure she has a supply of "plan B" pills on hand too. Grow up!

Answer 4

Abandon all thoughts of it and don't do so until your're MARRIED! Tell you liberal friends to go to heck, because they don't have a clue and are the cause of all misery that people have in their lives.