ok, i broke up with my ex for good reasons of my own but lately i've been remembering the good times we've had and i miss him, mostly physically. And yes, i do miss talking and laughing with him too. I dreamt him twice in 2 days but i dont give any significance to dreams...its just that they made him more real and now i miss him a lot. should i go back with him even though i was the one who broke up? is this enough for me to go back with him?
2006-09-03 20:24:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how about focus on the reasons you left cause even tho there were good times there were bad and there were more of those or other flaws in the relationship or you would have never left!
2006-09-03 20:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Rain S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Slappingfox is right.
But so are a couple other people. As time goes on, you will miss him less and less. That one day will become one week, and that one week becomes one month, that one month becomes one year, and one year becomes distant memory.
But unless it's the reasons that slappingfox mentioned, you can try and see if you can work things out, but like someone else said, he might be moving on and may not take you back. If you feel things can be worked, tell your ex you would like to get back together, but you both should go without seeing each other for awhile first to see if that would help. But then, don't be surprised if after taking a sabbatical if things go back to the way they used to be eventually.
My current guy wanted a break, so he went a week without contacting me, claimed he missed me, just to be a jerk, then, had another break, but went without a month or close to it without seeing each other, and only had contact via email, just for him to still be the same. I wish I had the courage to end things myself. I love him, but am not happy. I have an idea of what I can do...
Good luck either way! If you ever want to compare notes, email me!
2006-09-04 03:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Don't get back with him cause you miss him. Obviously the breakup was recent. Thinking about him is normal.
Let me ask you this: Have the reasons why you guys broke up been resolved?
If the answer is no (and i'm pretty sure it is), then don't get back with him. Give it time. You will think about him less and less.
2006-09-04 03:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by bunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with going back together with your ex.. Sometimes, you don't realise what you have until you lose them..
But, focus on why you broke up with him the first place. Can you two work the problem out together?
And, most importantly, will he accept you back?
2006-09-04 03:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by aqilahzaiyanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was abusive,then don't ever take him
back again!!! If he put you down and did
bad things to you,then stay away from him.
You said you had good reasons for ending
things with him,so remember that.
If he cheated on you,you know he will again!!!
let him go unless he was really good to you.
2006-09-04 03:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you are in love if he is doing you good then run back to him talk to him about what happen see if you 2 can make it true love is hard to find good luck to both of you
2006-09-04 03:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone let them go "if they come back to you it was meant to be"... "if they dont it was never there to begin"
2006-09-04 03:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Art 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i do think that you should go back with him. its pretty obvious thats what your body is telling you. that you need him and want him back
2006-09-04 03:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just attraction........And if you really loved him why did you left him? Might be he is dating with another gal now? leave him.
2006-09-04 03:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by Fun loving gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really think going back to him will do you good,go back.but i think you should move on
2006-09-04 03:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋