i was with my bf for 2 yrs and i really liked this guy for a while. He came over after we broke up and one thing led to another...am i a whore?
2006-09-03 19:50:42 · 21 answers · asked by becki t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, dont be silly you are not weak or a whore. Relationships dont end on the night all that happened is some one spoke what you both knew it was over. Is there some rule how long you have to wait? Why shouldn't you get comfort from a man , why not be appreciated for what you are , why not enjoy that special closeness that only love making brings.
You are / were hurting and this helps, WHO do you owe a duty to? other female? the ex? society? who said yous hold wait after you speak the words
go and enjoy life dont listen to the fools who have some strange morality plan for you. You did it becuse it felt right. who else knows what is best for you? not these uptight moralistic fools on yahoo
2006-09-03 19:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
4 days? Your pond scum but not a whore.
Whores get paid. You did it for free. So no your not a whore, just easy and cheap. Do you really think men find that attractive? Are you the kind of woman men want to take home to mom? Are you the kind of woman a man wants to raise his daughters? HELL NO. your the last kind of woman I want around my girls. That's not the example I want set for my kids. Do you want you daughter doing people right off the bat like that?
Hi every one, I'd like you to meet my daughter, just show up and in a matter of minutes she will be naked and spread eagle on the bed for you. Is that OK for your kids to be like that?
No your not a whore but you may want to think about becoming one.
2006-09-03 20:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by john d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do not wreck your heart over jerks like that. :) stay stable and stand tall, at last the discomfort will end, it constantly does, discomfort is variety of a hurricane and it does not final continuously. devour some chocolate, i'm not kidding, and get accessible and have exciting and tutor him what he's lacking. :D everybody is going with the aid of heartache faster or later, no count if with the aid of an considerable different or maybe a pal. Love is fairly complicated. i don't think of everybody might desire to fall out of affection so easily until they have been in no way rather IN love interior the 1st place. in keeping with risk he enjoyed you, yet in keeping with risk he did not understand what love became to intend it. i understand heartbreak isn't a decision, yet getting extra suited is. you could the two get out of this hunch or proceed wallowing in it. :) arise and be brave and dangle out with people who care approximately you, your individuals and relatives. wish you sense extra suited quickly. :D
2016-11-24 20:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same boat and no i don't think it is whoreish to do that because you were broke up and he was probly think the same think that you were. He is a guy what do you expect of him. I am not saying that he did not care about you but that is just a guys way of dealing with heartace and he was probly thinking who can i sleep with to make her mad.
2006-09-03 19:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you have slept around with this one and that one, what will you have to offer your husband if and when you marry?
It defiantly will not be yourself, because everyone else will have used that. Dyed hair will be of no interest, neither will crap in the eye brows/lid.
So, what exactly do you have going for yourself , that you would bring to the marriage table, to share with a husband, that belonged to just you two?
I know that he will feel very good when the two of you walk together and every slob gives him the look that says, "Yea, I did her too"
2006-09-03 20:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not necessarily, but i would say you're probably hurt and vulnerable. give things a week or two to settle, just to test out how you're feeling about all this. let your emotions cool off. think things over. which is stronger, you guilt or your passion? do you think he might be using you, taking advantage of you while your resistance is low? will the rumors outweigh what you know in your heart? can THIS relationship last in the long run? these are important things to think about, and you need some time to really REALLY give them a lot of thought. we can all advise you, console or chastise you, but only Y O U can make any real decisions. i wish you all the best, including a friend to drown your sorrows in baskin robins with and the occasional hot bubble bath with a good book and gentle aromatherapy in your favorite scent.
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2006-09-03 20:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by eri_mizawa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope. You just needed a bit of well-deserved variety after two years of the same old thing. I think it is a pretty normal thing (and I have only slept with one man my entire life-my hubby, so I don't have "loose" morals).
2006-09-03 20:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by MissM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have called a spade a spade. Sounds like you were whoring around w/ the boyfriend. What about marriage?
2006-09-03 19:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do your ex a favor and never let him find about this... if you have any remaining love for the guy, you'll do him this last wish of not breaking his heart further.
2006-09-03 19:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na, its kind of like breakup sex, the last nail in the coffin to finalize things!
2006-09-03 19:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋