I am in love with this girl for last 4 years. I was good friend of mine. But there is something that is stopping me to propose her.. Actually I seen that she is very double minded, afraid of everything, not honest, and not very social.. Then also I love her a lot.. I have never proposed her but one of my friends took my mobile and proposed her on behalf of me and since then she is not talking to me.. I know that I cannot get a life partner which is perfect but she has a lot of bad qualities and thus I am not able to decide whether to marry her of not... But I cannot live without her also..
Do you think that I can ignore these bad qualities, adjust with her and propose her again and explain her that I can keep her happy? Or shall I leave her.. But I am not able to forget her..
2006-09-03 19:39:25 · 18 answers · asked by SecretHorn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personal Traits of any person cannot be changed - There are so many other females who have good perosnal traits, search and definitely u will get one. But never compromise on a girl - its too too dangerous. U can forget her when u select a girl for youself as u will spend all your time on her
2006-09-03 19:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bharadwaj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is not interested in marrying you. And you did it in the worse way. Being a good friend usually means just that, a friend. If you have been dating, then pop the question yourself and explain that a friend did it the first time. Let her know that you thought she had been avoiding you since because she thought the same thing. After getting that out of the way, talk with her about the future and see if you two want the same things.
2006-09-03 19:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mary D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that hesitant about it, then I would say no she is either not the girl for you or you two have things to work out before a proposal is appropriate. Why would you propose if you two are not even on speaking terms due to her friends and the phone? I think that certain issues need to be resolved before you get down on one knee. Good luck!
2006-09-03 19:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by mrs michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my its is right that LOVE IS BLIND..Often when we love somebody we always try to see the good points of our partner or lover..But its not fair when u know the drawback of ur girl..actually true love is based on emotions and feelings and offcourse opposite sex attraction is always there..but ur love will long last when ull like all her qualities..if u dont like any of her qualities then wait a moment and just think Are u ready to lead ur full life with her with her all disqualities..i think u know the answer..so dont ignore her drawbacks..Love is not only sex its far more than it..its a combination of sex,care,dedication and trust..so if u want a long term relation with her then take ur first step only when u'll make up ur mind to accept her with all her drawbacks..in ur case u dont like her certain qualities..thats a signal for u that u'll not be able to lead a haappy life with her in future..on the other hand,u hav not proposed her till yet directly..may be she not ready for ur love..so decide and then take a suitable step...
2006-09-03 20:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by praveenalmora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bad idea. Marriage doesn't improve people's relationships unless they already have a solid foundation to work off of. I wouldn't do it. If after 4yrs the idea of marriage is scary to her and you're uncertain as well, it's time to jump ship. My 2 cents anyway
2006-09-03 19:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Lacy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it some one els will come along
and you will love eveything about her
so just wait
if this girl has that many issues man.
more will pop up befor you konw it and then you will be so fuckin stuck no matter how old you are you will find that one person 4 u
2006-09-03 19:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by ez-goin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you just have to find the right person. When you're in a healthy relationship you do end up having to communicate things- as there is another person involved not just yourself.
2016-03-26 21:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seems to be very confused just toss a coin Head u marry her Tail u won't marry her.
2006-09-04 02:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Shaktii J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don do anything rite now..........Just give some space into this relationship. This trick will do enough to take yu out from yur confusion.
2006-09-03 20:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by Rohit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u propose her again and her to belive u i think can ignore the bad qualities in her.......
2006-09-03 21:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋