My best friend told me tonight that he and my ex slept together. Now... not more than days ago she told me that she wanted to get back together. I considered getting back with her until I found this out... and found out that she had been cheating on me with a completely different guy. I have no will to ever speak to her again, but we were good friends after we split.
Am I a moron? How should I react? What do I do?
2006-09-03 19:24:59 · 30 answers · asked by torrentwolves 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well they obviously wouldn't of slept with her if they really was your best friend, with friends like that who needs enemies
2006-09-03 19:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have they slept together while you and her were still together? If so: you have all reasons to feel hurt and betrayed. There's only a few things worse than knowing that both of the people you trust and love more ( your girlfriend and best friend) have lied and cheated on you.
There is no excuse for such a behaviour. If you still value your ex's friendship , let time mend your heart and see if someday you can reastablish a friendship with her... the day you will move on with your life this could happen but then, you might also not need anymore her friendship..
What about your best friend? I don't see him being any better than her.. Good luck!
2006-09-03 19:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's no longer ok for her to drop u like a nasty habit and then to pass sleep with some different person! it really is what u call a ****! N u do not desire that, u deserve more beneficial positive. If u took her back, u would imagine about how she ****** her ex each and every of the time. My husband change into cheated on some circumstances and it had a lengthy time period influence on him. he's tremendous jealous and some circumstances somewhat a administration freak, yet i love him to a lot to enable pass. So do not take her back because if she cared about u than she doesn't of performed that!
2016-10-15 22:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by kenton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your definatley not a moron. i dont think you should go back woth your x because if she can sleep with your best friend what else will she do cos thats a really bad thing to do and as for your best friend hes not cos he should never ever go there, i would just forget about him and her, ive been in that situation before and i no how you feel, there both cheaters and you dont need people likethat hope everthing works out xxxxx
2006-09-03 21:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Louise Jayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/t8rxg
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-29 06:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on and forget her. If she truly cared about you she would not have cheated on you, especially with your best friend. I really don't think you should take her back. And I would also take a good look at your friendship with your best friend? I know my best friend would never even think about doing any thing like that to me. And being a Morman you should know that sex before marriage is wrong. Good luck and God bless
2006-09-03 19:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave them a lone if they want to sleeps 2gther than just let them, find anouther girl and best friend. I don't think u r a moron, that is hard for aanyone to react 2
2006-09-03 19:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything could be a lie... and she was your ex girlfriend not your girlfriend isn't. maybe even though she did it, she found out she really loves you and wants to be with you. Try her as a girlfriend and if it doesn't work at least you know. People commit mistakes sometimes don't you?
2006-09-03 19:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by mansongirl17us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You don't want to be penis brothers with your best friend with the girl you are dating. Best friends and girlfriends that have had sex together don't go together. I was in a similair situation but now that guy is no longer my friend because it got too weird at times, and he got bitter that she wanted me and not him.
2006-09-03 19:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by ninecoronas2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose the gf, she is worthless. ur bestie, however, is a different matter. the fact that they slept together after u split up means that, he really did nothing wrong to you. the fact that he told u about it means that he cares enough and respects you enough to feel guilty about it. njo girl is ever woth it if she comes between two friends. dont let her indiscretions ruin your friendship.
2006-09-03 19:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by talz_talz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋