if we are in a quarel i should say, she neglect me when im trying to fix things like the root of our misunderstanding. then her temper is controlled but i cannot talk to her, if i do, she gets even angry.. what should i do to deal with this situation so that i cannot offend her and i will be able to fix the things as soon as possible. thank you!
2006-09-03 19:19:10 · 16 answers · asked by Skydom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start with a nice 'Im sorry", even though you didn't do nothing wrong, most women just wont be content till they make the man say they are sorry. Then start telling her you're going to change, that always works. lol.. sorry but if she doesn't listen to you now, you should probably move on to someone who wont put you through this.
2006-09-03 19:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What your explaining happens to woman on a daily basis. Men never listen to us woman. My husband is a GREAT example of this. So now hear is what you can do. First tell her that you both need to talk. And you want her full attention then tell her what she has been doing and how that makes you feel. If she quickly gets upset then tell her you know I do not want to argue I am talking to you to prevent these arguments. And tell her I love you and want this to work but if you don't say so now. Then what ever the decision is then you know and you can either get out if that is want it resulted in or fix it....
2006-09-03 19:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, give her sometime off (it depends on the severity of your quarrel) say a few hours if its only minor. Second, after both of you especially her calms down (does she shout when upset or angry?) you have to talk to her and ask her what you need to do to appease her....if its your fault just say sorry and hug her. She will respond by calming down and with kisses too :-) If not (third) then you have to let her know that you wanted to fix things for both of you. Tell her how you feel, if you care for her tell her, if you are hurt coz she is neglecting you tell her, just tell her how you feel. Communicate with each other. Try to reach out with each other- yunesa@yahoo.com
2006-09-03 19:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women want you to be a man, not a girl. Don't sit and talk about feelings, take control of the situation.
2006-09-03 19:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bummer. Unfortunately, these women don't/can't change. They think they are always right and they are jealous of your success. they have no problem telling you what your faults are but they are blind to their own. Been there, still doing that. You have to decide when and how to leave and then follow your plan. She's miserable and wants you to fix it.
2006-09-03 19:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by blutoadmirer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be have faith in a relationship for it to bypass everywhere. in case you probably did no longer have faith her, it became time to ditch her. Plus, she wasn't dependable to you..you fairly wanna be with somebody who messes around with somebody else. i think of you probably did the perfect element!!!
2016-11-06 09:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by shea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is too angry at that point to listen or that is her way of ending an endless argument that is pointless.
2006-09-03 19:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by AusPixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to try in the nicest way possible to ask her what she wants and if she is still getting angry then u need to just leave her even though it may be hard to
2006-09-03 19:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by rm38358 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From now on: If you make a mistake, have an agument, don't keep brinning it up, From now on pretend it never happened. Just carry on like normal.
2006-09-03 19:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk to her then you shouldn't be with her.
It's as simple as that honey. The relationship cannot grow without communication.
Why would you want to be with someone who won't listen anyway? Get with someone who is mature.
2006-09-03 19:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋