Well..I told my gf that i love fooling around with her, I love being in this stage of the relationship where we can't keep our hands off each other. She says she likes it too, but then she said something about how she hopes this relationship will eventually go to another stage too, and so i said i am sure it will eventually, but i told her to keep in mind that it is all downhill once people reach the point she is talking aout (Marriage) and she said I was right...and then said i was like the horse in the old saying "you can lead a horse to water but u can't make him drink it" what the F***? What's the big deal...?
We have been dating on and off for 6 years, i told her i know i am gonna marry her someday just not right now...maybe in another 3-5 years, i may think about getting married but not now! What the Hell is her problem...why does she get mad when she knows I don't want to get married right now? She know I want to make more money before I settle down, so why the hell is she mad?
2006-09-03 19:11:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 27 and she is 25...we have been dating on and off for 6 years...i know we are gonna end up stuck with each other in the end anyway...so whats the rush?
2006-09-03 19:13:08 · update #1
This is a serious question...please help me figure out why she is pist off...i mean it can't be the marriage thing can it...she knows i am not ready!
2006-09-03 19:19:46 · update #2
You are doing the right thing. Don't give in to talks about marriage until you feel you're ready. Love and marriage is not about one person pressuring the other into it. If you currently tell her that you love her, than remind her of that, but explain to her that you two still have your whole lives ahead of you. There is no hurry. The world is not ending tomorrow. You will ask her to marry you when you are ready. The same way she would not want pressure from you if she was not ready. Marriage is still a big step, even today. Explain to her she is not going to lose you just because a piece of paper doesn't exist.
2006-09-03 19:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well let's just say she wants to settle down already and live the life she always wanted by having her man by her side. She wants to start having a serious relationship because she loves you a lot and knows that your the one who she wants to spend the rest of her life with. You know things can change from 3-5 years from now. Don't always be certain what will happen next. Life does not go according to your plans always. Let's just say one day you meet someone who you end up falling for or she meets someone who she falls for. Yeah she might love you right now, but things can go down the drain just like that. Why do you think she wants to settle down now. I understand you don't want to rush things so fast and you want that stage that you are in to last, but at one point you are going to have to go on to the next stage. Just sit down and talk to her about what you plan to do right now. How you love her and that you just want to make more money so you can pamper her and have enough money for the things that will be needed when married. Also enough money for the future kids who you will try to give the best too so their lives can be better then yours and your girlfriends life. I wish you luck and the best to come on this relationship. Hopefully everything goes according to what you plan to do. Eventually your girlfriend will get over this problem, so don't sweat it much. Just enjoy the small fights right now.
Ciao~
2006-09-03 19:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by a_cute_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were her.. I would probably feel the same way too. I mean you have given each other six years of your life and that's a lengthy amount of time to be dating someone. She probably feels that since you have been dating for so long then you should just go ahead and get married. After all, nothing says it better than " I do" lol. It's understandable that you would like to make more money before you get married, but at the same time... when you make those vows to someone.. then you two become one. I said that to say this.. You two can build a life together, start saving together, and it wont take so long to accomplish the goals that you are seeking. And as far as that saying goes... She has told you what her heart desires, and it is up to you to fulfill her dreams. If you love her and really plan to marry her then I would say go for it. That is if you really plan on spending the rest of your life with her. Dont be afraid to take it to that level. Besides.. it is better to marry than to burn.... Good luck
2006-09-03 19:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by badd_azz_redd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm specific she's upset, and has the perfect to be. What the f*** is her subject? Her "subject" is that she is in a commited relationship that she probable concept might sooner or later bring about marriage, or some thing extra effective than in basic terms "fooling around." maximum women individuals want extra effective than that. She might desire to be disillusioned, looking out her boyfriend of 6 years thinks of it as fooling around. She probable feels which you do no longer think of your relationship is going to be durable. Marriage would not do something on your relationship. Getting married would not wreck a solid relationship, the individuals do. numerous women individuals dream of their wedding ceremony day - she probable in basic terms needs you to be the single she marries. Be flattered. You sound such as you have an ideas-set approximately it - you fairly shouldn't, because of the fact it fairly is comprehensible. supply her time. communicate along with her a sprint extra, yet do no longer enable what you hear from human beings stop you from doing something. think of for your self. Do you fairly think of a sprint paper could make the entire relationship bypass to hell? So in actuality.. it fairly is in basic terms a fling? Or a intercourse element? What?
2016-11-06 09:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by shea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should dump your stringing along assss. Or at least find someone on the side who will commit instead of putting all her eggs in one basket. cause obviouly YOU haven't! Your gettin free puss(a precious commodity, higher than gas) for nothing. She should drop yo assss so you can go back to jerkin off and going to strip clubs. In 5 years she will lose 80% of her eggs.
2006-09-03 19:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by My name is MJ Beatch! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think she's mad because she finally figured out that she's been wasting her time on you.
With your attitude toward marriage and toward your gf, you can expect a lonely future --- if your gf has finally wised up.
2006-09-03 19:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by #girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know you are going to be together why not get it over with and just do it? Your cold feet are her problem.
2006-09-03 19:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by AusPixie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe she's tired of giving you the wifely benefits without the marriage...if i was her i would give you an ultimatum....if the answer is no she can find someone who doesn't frustrate her wishes and waste more of her time..
2006-09-03 19:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by Happy Summer 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
stop talking about Nick Lachay and she won't be mad
2006-09-03 19:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants to have babies now???idk
2006-09-03 19:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋