ok...I really really like this boy and I want to ask him to homecoming but am super shy. How should I do it?
2006-09-03 19:11:28 · 13 answers · asked by Mary Ann 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easiest way now days is to start off talking to someone via online communications such as aim and facebook, then just ask!
2006-09-03 19:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Randy McDaniel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I got something you need to know. Noone critisizes you like yourself. Heck I doubt this boy even knows enough about you to have even the slightest negative thought about you. Besides, what's the worst he could say?? No? I've already got a date? Don't be afraid, just go up to him and ask him if he's got a date to homecoming. Knowing any better he'll think kindly of you, that is usually the disposition of all good people. So if he isn't going with someone else, then pop the question, and don't be afraid of the answer. Because if you allow fear to rule your life you won't ever get the things you want.
2006-09-04 02:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by ianr1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too shy to talk . . . then tell a friend to approach him and suggest you may be available and check to see if there is an interest. They could even say you don't know that they just like playing matchmaker for friends who don't have a date for homecoming.
2006-09-04 02:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by ctoys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A note, thats what I would do, but you have to make it like more than just wanna go to homecoming with me... you should tell him how you feel about him and then ask
2006-09-04 02:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are friends with him, hint that you want to go but you don't have anyone to go with yet. At this, ask if he is going with someone. If not, ask if he will go with you. If he is going with someone else, don't waist your time on him, someone better will come along.
I longed for a guy in high school. When I finally had a chance to be with him, I blew it. Shyness will rob you of who you want to be with.
Some guys think it is cute, but if you can't ask him a question or even talk with him, he is not going to get the message and it will be too late, because other girls out there may have their eyes on the same guy.
Another solution, get your best friend to ask him for you, but make sure she doesn't have a secret attraction to him. Sometimes having a girlfriend doing this for you is a killer. Girls in general are back stabbers when it comes to guys.
Be careful. Don't get your heart broken by him. There are plenty more out there and they will come looking for you one day. Enjoy life... It is wonderful.
2006-09-04 02:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mary D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear your hair down, some earrings, lipgloss, and some eyeliner. Wear short shorts or a skirt with high heeled shoes, and be friendly and happy. Ask him out during homecoming (makesure he doesn't have a GF) though.
2006-09-04 02:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by Scatman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him first.
Get to know him and then hint that homecoming is coming up, then ask him
2006-09-04 02:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl... all you got to do is have a friend who aint shy ask him to come talk to you.. or make up a dumbass excuse like askin him to help you with homework or somethin an take it from there
2006-09-04 02:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Kassi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him first if he isn't busy on the day of the homecoming..
then ask him if he wants to go with u there just make alliby like theres no one wants to go out with u..
2006-09-04 02:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by darLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to him, start a conversation about something different, something that you know interests him, and that u know enough about that u wont embarass yourself. keep it light, and jokey, and, when youve been laughing together for a while, just slip it into the converation. If he says yes, you're in! if he says no, its his loss, and dont feel so shy that you dont go with somebody else.
:)GoodLuck
2006-09-04 02:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by talz_talz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋