Does a girl have to feel that special chemistry /attraction after
the 1st or even 2nd date or the guy gets dumped in friendship land
or even worse just dumped ?
If a 1st or even a 2nd date went well- but no sparks,during the
dates -just enjoying each others company & talk, should
a guy, at the end of a date, try to hug or kiss the girl-
or should he just say buy or shake hands- or if she does not
intiate anything- does that mean she is not into him????
2006-09-03 18:47:22 · 9 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would like to add that if a girl said and you
could tell she meant she wanted to go out again-should a guy really risk blowing it
with kissing her or hugging her if she did
not make any moves etc,
Or does a guy just have to have the balls
and go for it (kiss her on cheek, hug, etc.)
2006-09-03 18:57:53 · update #1
i can't tell for all the girls in the world, but i ususally know after 2 date 100% what is going to happen with this guy - either we will have some sexual relationships or i will dump him or we will remain friends. and yes, after a second date u should look for some signals from her - she might want to be closer to u (i mean distance) and to touch u (not on penis of course) and smile a lot. and look into your eyes. so if a girl does all of it she is into u. if she makes distance with u as far as possible, avoids looking into your eyes and doesn't smile a lot - u might as well do not have plans for 3 date. however u don't look for those signs on the first date. a girl is just investigating u and trying to understand what a person u re. so try to be your absolute best. good luck
2006-09-03 19:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i've understood ur problem and in most of the cases this happen. though i'm not experienced but then also i would like to tell that after having 2nd time date girls always try to maintain a safe distance from him.
Reason-------
i)this relationship may come close to her parents that may create a huge problem
and one thing if u just try to avoid her for atleast one week and manage to be with another gal then in most of the case the gal feeling jealous returns to her partner.
BUT never ever try to kiss or smooch her if she dosen't want.
then opposite things might happen.
if u can give love u will get it surely
2006-09-03 20:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by Debdutta R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A female knows within 30 seconds if there is chemistry or not...By the 2nd date she really knows if this is going somewhere. Kiss her fool.....
2006-09-03 19:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aight the saying is third time is a charm so...............go on a third date and then at the end of the night grab her hand gently and kiss it and tell her good night and then look into her eyes as if your trying to look for something and if she comes closer then kiss her but not too much and then leave and that will leave her to wonder and then she will ask you out again.
2006-09-03 18:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always give myself 4 dates to decide, as long as he keeps asking. but i mite not do that anymore cause i went on 3 dates with a guy and i thought i actually liked him but...he didnt ask me on a forth because i wasnt sending any signals. so its stupid
2006-09-03 18:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by mary lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont feel any chemistry between the two of u then perhaps there is none! at the end of the date do u feel like kissing her? or do u feel like ur supposed to kiss her since it's the end of the date. most girls, not all, dont like to initiate things since they dont want to seem to easy and usually like to make sure the guy is into them first.
2006-09-03 18:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by mayami 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl n I'm shy til u get to know me. I'll sit in class quiet n not talk to anyone n wen ppl talk to me I get nervous...... But if ik u n were friends I'm a lot more outgoing .... I just get nervous around newer people n I get scared..... Guys always calls me cute n adorable cuz I'm shy, short, got a nice body, im sweetheart til u piss me off, stuff like that......
2016-03-17 07:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it takes guys 45 seconds to know if he will bang a girl. for girls i beleive its like 4-5 minutes. after that its up to you to bring them back
2006-09-03 18:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by AtreyuExs&Ohs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he should just shake hands and say good by trying to kiss is absolutely wrong.
2006-09-03 18:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by santa s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no chem no bang bang! ! LMAO.....i think you should try to kiss, i mean shaking hands is too childern like and huggins is too old people ay. so kissin is the right way. thats how i see it
2006-09-03 18:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋