It seams the crappier the guy the more women are in to them. Be a drug dealer, user, rob a few people, commit a few fellonies, then have your pick of the most beautiful women. Thats how it goes down where I live. And usually these guys are the most broke when it comes to money, and usually they are stupid and look like crap from all the drugs they do. Are most American women just crazy or something? I can't figure this whole notion out. I think these gals are brainwashed as to whats good from all the crap they have seen on t.v, and their experiences in highschool.
2006-09-03 18:45:56 · 29 answers · asked by lvillejj 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know everything but I do know this. In the area I live in, every guy that is a convicted felon is married or has a girlfriend.
Every guy that is heavily into drugs, is married, or has a girlfriend.
Every guy that is unemployed for long periods of time, and can't hold a job when he gets one, is married, or has a girlfriend.
Two things to consider however....the types of girls that go out with these guys probably arent' a prize.
The other is that you have to accept the things you cannot control in life. You can't change it, so, do your best not to think about it and find happiness.
2006-09-03 18:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by d h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it either. I know there someone out there good enough for me, so I'm not going to settle. She might be younger, all the girls my age were married a long time ago. When I meet girls now and they find out, some will ask, "Are you divorced, or gay?"
"Neither" is what I tell them. I was critically injured when I was 22, and it's taken me longer to get established in a career and to be ready for a relationship that lasts.
You don't want the kind that are into losers anyway. Don't be afraid to not follow the stupid crowd.
2006-09-03 18:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick mayami, jennifer, or tessie for best answer. I don't like bad boys either! I want a guy with class, heart of gold, and the ability to get along and respect someone he does not like.
Bad boys are a MAJOR turn off for me. I don't want some guy who might wind up behind bars or killed for some stupid ********! That's a major stressor.
Plus, I'm a sweetie myself, so that's why I won't put up with bad boys. I'm the 3-0; I'm too old for boys, I want a mature man. I ESPECIALLY want a man who wants to wine and dine with me, rub my back, tells me he loves me, NOT some jack off who won't do those things but wants to get into my pants or use me like a prostitute. And I ALSO don't like guys who pays more attention to his female friends than me, or feel the need to look at half/fully naked women!
2006-09-03 19:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys appear boring & timid to many women. However there are many good ladies who would die to meet you. Perhaps you are looking at the wrong women, in the wrong places at the wrong hours.
Try libraries, book stores, museums, art galleries, etc. Get more into your hobbies & you just might meet someone. Check out your local newspaper, try something new every week & network!
Good luck,
2006-09-03 18:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. When you find out, let me know, because my 17 year old is hooked on a loser that got kicked out of school for smoking pot on campus, and is now in Alt school. He can't keep a job, and is now working at, of all places, A & W! What a winner. He can't do any sort of manual labor, because he claims to have bad toes due to, get this, ingrown toe nails!! My daughter is beautiful, cheerleader, brown belt in Karate, and chooses this loser. Her dad, and I want to know the answer to this question too, so if you find out, please let us know, okay?
2006-09-03 18:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by K S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they have the most attention. just look in a family, the one whose name is called the most is the most trouble maker of all the kids.
girls don't want to have someone who is not having attraction from the public, but for all those guys included in your paragraph, they do really get the attention even from the government.
2006-09-03 18:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by C-Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a lot of dingbats in your town, dont worry about them. More than likely they are retarded and will get knocked up soon. You'll get your chance and then they'll see that they've been stupid to miss out on you.
2006-09-03 18:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The types of guys that get hot chicks are very straight-forward and just say what they want. Nice guys get passed over, because they are too polite to really say what they want. We all want the same thing, but the ******* get it, because they aren't afraid to ask.
2006-09-03 18:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by martin h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not about being a loser , it just may be that whom ever it my be , he makes her feel good and she likes just being around that person .. but when it comes to the truth they will learn when he brakes her heart and in the end it just gain more knowledge ..
2006-09-03 19:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by squishie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would never date someone like that but i think females have that mothering thing in them that makes them think they can fix or help someone....Either that or they feel they don't deserve a good guy or no one else would want them...I have more respect for myself and would never date or marry trash....
2006-09-03 19:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋