2006-09-03 18:45:36 · 13 answers · asked by Skydom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cant have a boyfriend im married but if i was you i would say no....
2006-09-03 19:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a grown woman and have been with my boyfriend for over two years, and friends with him for 6 years. He doesn't have to ask for sex, when we want it, we have it. As for the younger ladies, or those in new relationships, the answers will be much different, everyone has to do what feels right for them :)
2006-09-03 18:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your standards? You should always think about how far you are willing to go on a date before you ever go anywhere or do anything with anyone of the opposite sex. "it just happend" is never a good excuse...because nothing ever 'just happens!' if you don't want to have sex or aren't comfortable with doing it yet...then don't. And if they don't respect that, then they don't derserve you...follow your heart...and always have a plan. or at least standards...and never get into a situation that you can't get yourself out of!
2006-09-03 18:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by marci_risor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex to early in a relationship can bring a lot of pain. If it is the yearning of his body and not his heart you can bet there will be some emotional anguish as a result. Do not allow him to pressure you, if he truly cares about you he will respect your hesitancy and understand timing is important.
2006-09-03 18:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you say no?
virgins are losers, sex is part of life, part of relationship, more you have better you get. it isn't anything special except to sexually dysfunctional people
if you said i was saving my self for marriage i would say i will always cherish our non sexual friendship and look for a real woman who can be a real girlfriend
2006-09-03 18:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will have sex with him. because i love to have sex with him. but unlike you, i'm not a teenager.
you should just wait until you are ready.
2006-09-03 18:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by lilou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say i will not have sex with anyone until i marry that person
2006-09-03 18:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by angelina p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. Although I don't need to explain myself, I will tell him I am saving myself for marriage. If he doesn't like it, there is a door and he can use it.
2006-09-03 18:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no, I am not ready to do that. Because I'd think he just wants to use me, so, say no OK!!
2006-09-03 18:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't feel pressured. the more he says that other people are doing it and all that is just added pressure. lock it up till YOU feel right
2006-09-03 18:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by AtreyuExs&Ohs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋