2006-09-03 18:27:32 · 13 answers · asked by Butterfly 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Welll my best advice is about to be said. Lets see I was feeling like this with my ex. She did everything for me and i did for her. I wasnt really sure if she was the one so one day I decided to tell her i needed somtime apart and then telling her right after wards i was kidding you know as a joke just to find out how she really felt about me. She told me if i needed time apart then i want the one she wanted to be with. This told me efverything she was the one i explained to her it was just a joke and stuff and that i wanted to marry her. So a couple of months later everything is fine but this flood strikes and i wound up loosing my dog my hous and my ex and child she left me and my car was crashed. She left me because i didnt have anything. What the hell i thought she loved me goes to show you never eally know who is the one untill you really met this person. Try living with them for a long time ive seen couples break up after being to gether for a long time.
2006-09-03 18:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait two years and reconsider then.
Seriously, have fun first then think about running away with someone else. Personally I got married later, 30, because I watched a lot of my friends fall in love with their high school sweethearts or the girl in college. I also watched them get divorced a year or two later because one of them goofed around on the other because they reconsidered.
If you are not at least 90% sure, and you haven't tricked yourself into being in love for the sake of being in love. Fill your boots, gets some rings and get married, only after a nice long engagement.
The other option is date that person and others. Remember you don't have a ring on your finger so you are still a "Free agent". So is your partner. In my experience keeping things light and easy with no commitments in the begining is the best medicine. Just date, hang out, enjoy each other's company. For at least two years.
2006-09-03 18:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by SpankyTClown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer how far you dare to bypass, no duty, wild issues, highs, angst of breaking up, no further than the 2nd. that's not something like that throughout any respect. that's being selfless for that individual, desiring them to be happy no remember what. Being risk-free with one yet another, and respecting each and each others needs, desires, and critiques. Feeling heat and risk-free once you're with them, and continuously wwanting them to hold you tight. understanding they are going to guard you. that's a secure feeling, no longer a reckless feeling. that's in basic terms lust and the assumption of lust. intercourse would not even might desire to play a place in love...that's purely a actual connection, no longer something extra. Love is interior the heart, the warmth emotions, and the experience of understanding that no longer something can seperate you right now, or perhaps interior the destiny.
2016-11-06 09:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We love alot of people in our lives, and love them all differently. If you are not sure this person is the one you want to be with forever, then stop wasting yours and their time. Move on. Be friends if possible but if you are looking for long term and are doubtful then move on.
2006-09-03 18:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to spend time with/date them. This is what dating is for!! Take the time you need to really get to know each other. There is no rush, if its 6 months, a year, 2 years. Just take the time until you are comfortable making a decision.
2006-09-03 18:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by karkov48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your self this......."where do i see myself in 5 years" is it still with your certain someone??? we are forever changing and growing i personally think that you can't predict whether a certain someone is "right for you" just live for the moment and enjoy what you have......never hold back on your feelings, you only live once...life is unpredictable... just take one day at a time and always come out on top with whatever life throws your way... and remember this.....the most important person in your life is YOU...if your not 100% happy...don't stay coz your worried about their feelings....they will get over it! be safe and be happy
cheers
2006-09-03 18:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep loving them and showing them that love. No need to make any rash decisions. Best of luck.
2006-09-03 18:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you don't truely love him.
and the girl who answered with "Just keep loving them and showing them that love. No need to make any rash decisions."
thats not love, thats saying "hmmmm i think i'll keep him around and waste his time, while i search for a better match."
thats almost cheating.
2006-09-03 18:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by artist.returned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not sure then it really not love!
2006-09-03 18:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Kewl__Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you get your first kiss either nothing happens or you feel magic and butterflys in your stomach and when you think of he/she you feel like you half to hold on to something or youll float away
2006-09-03 18:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by HayHay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋