ok today my family n my bf n his sister went to cedar point had a blast omg it was awesome but then the way home he started shakin really bad n he told me he was scared i asked him why hes like because i dont wanna lose you im like dont worry about it you wont lose me... then when i was sleepin he was whisperin in my ear your beautiful, that i was mad at him for somethin (even tho i wasnt), he also kept sayin i love you soo much, n hes scared that since im goin to high school n hes still in 8th grade that im gonna find another guy better then him when hes a really great bf i mean i can never break up with him at all hes perfect!!! :-) n he thinks that hes an asshole n stuff when hes not...
how can i make him not think that!! please any advice... i tell him to stop thinkin about me breakin up for another guy...cause it wont happen please any advice!!
2006-09-03 18:22:57 · 12 answers · asked by babi_blonde_101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all this happened in the car...
n im 14 n hes 13 tunring 14 in a couple of months..
alot of people say that we wont last.. but if we really want it to work we can make it last....
my parents were together for 20 years... ever since they were our age!!! soo there might be a possibilty!!!
2006-09-03 18:32:51 · update #1
I suppose you can just keep giving him reassurance, let him know how you feel about him how much you love him, & say just because your going to high school that's not going to change who you are or how you feel about him because you've only got eyes for him. I guess that's all you can do, just give him all the reassurance you can...
2006-09-03 18:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize that your bf is insecure. It is a natural human emotion. All you can really do is talk to him and tell him how you feel about him. You can reassure him how you feel but that is about it, there is no way you can make him know that you want to be with him and not someone else. Best of luck.
2006-09-04 01:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People go through many changes in high school. Right now, you may feel like you want to stay with him but time changes many things and you may feel differently later. While in high school, you may meet many interesting guys. I think you're still young to be so involved, just have fun and discover yourself.
2006-09-04 01:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by caramel_sundae1077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a toughy!! First think about some things most importantly do u love him. He obviously loves you very much (i think)... he cares about you a lot and he doesn't wanna lose you... don't break his heart and seriously sit him down and tell him you love him (if you do) and not to worry about you breaking up with him... i had this situation once too...
2006-09-04 01:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cheerleader♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys and girls alike at that age are very insecure. Just keep assuring him your not going anywhere, that you don't want to break up with him, and maybe he'll start to believe you. Good luck!
2006-09-04 01:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by nsphatgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a simple case of insecurity you told him that you wont and that should be enough tell him that you wont and God sees all and what is done in the dark will come out in the light.
2006-09-04 01:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg you guys are so young....those were the dayz...lol anyways, just assure him that even if you guys do break up, there will be many and plenty more females in his life that he will feel this way about. being so young, you never realize how you have actually just began the ''dating'' game...lol
2006-09-04 01:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by sexy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are the both of you?My son's in th 8th grade at 16,that's why I asked,if you both aren't old enough to tell when a relationship will work,then your aren't old enough to be together.
2006-09-04 01:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by malibu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make love alot and smile
2006-09-04 01:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he is really jealous either that or he has a guilty conscious.
2006-09-04 01:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋