These gusy are usually 28 to 35. I work on an army post- the PX, if anyone here knows what I'm talking about- and I'm only 19! . How do I NOT attract men almost old enough to be my dad?
2006-09-03 17:50:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um... I wear very, very modest work uniform.
2006-09-03 17:57:42 · update #1
Men are going to hit on you sweetie, they can't help it. It's up to you to assert yourself on what you will and won't put up with.You can be friendly and simply make it known that they are too old for you and if they keep pressing you then let it become known that it makes you uncomfortable, to which you could ALWAYS go to one THEIR superior officers, and they don't want that trouble at all.
2006-09-03 18:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by CandyCain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a voice, use it! At a certain point, if you keep saying "no" and they ignore you, it becomes harassment - sexual or otherwise; start documenting and if need be, have your supervisor talk to their superior officer...they'll get the point, but first you have to use your voice....you're 19, not 10...
2006-09-03 17:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are an attractive female you will still attract them.
older man have more confidence in themselves and are more likely to ask you out..
just make it known that you are not looking for anyone that is out of a certain age range....
2006-09-03 17:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older men will forever be attracted to young beautiful girls. It's their nature. Just tell them your parents don't like you associating with older guys. It may sound corny, but sometimes it works.
2006-09-03 17:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. The current fashionable things seem to be girls being bi-sexual and women who like older men. Hard to buck society? I don't know. I would say try not to worry so much about it.
2006-09-03 17:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a haz mat suit
mutilate yourself
wear a bag over your head
act crazy
if not willing to do above, it's pretty inevitable, i think a better solution is perfecting rejections
2006-09-03 17:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sasquatch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B a man, most guys will hump a hole in the door
2006-09-03 18:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by Sozay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm try dressing differently and try to be less hot so old rappists wont try to harm u.
2006-09-03 17:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the attention.
Be polite but firm about where you stand.
2006-09-03 17:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You work on a army base,they will talk to any female they see,unless you want to get another job,just say no thanks.
2006-09-03 17:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋