i am not doing anything wrong just talking but my boyfriend gets mad.
2006-09-03 17:15:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust me he has never hurt me. but i have cheated on him before could be part of it? i dont know we have been together 5 yrs and it just seems to be getting worse but i do love him help me please
2006-09-03 17:20:34 · update #1
Thats the internal fear of you boyfriend that he may lose you. Give him that confidence and then you can freely move with everybody.
2006-09-03 17:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've cheated on him and he knows it, then i'd say number one, he's a fool to stay with you and number 2, he has every right to trip on you talking to other guys. you say you cheated like it was nothing. besides, out of respect, why would you talk to other guys right in his face. i'd like to see your reaction if he started talking to other girls. what goes around comes around and i think you should let him go and let him find something better. if he doesnt know, then you should still part ways. even if your'e not doing nothing wrong, there is no trust there and a relationship without trust is nothing but drama. just let it go. besides, if youre single you can talk to all the guys you want to. but in a relationship its just not right. why would you do something to cause unnecessary problems when its already getting bad between the two of you? besides, you say you love him, but you must not love him too much to cheat on him when he hasnt done anything wrong to you. thats sorry and you should feel guilty.
2006-09-03 17:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by melanie c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with "just talking." However, make sure that if he is around he is being included in the conversation. Also, it would be unfair, unwise, and dishonest to let the "just talking" turn into flirtation. Its a thin and sometimes unclear line.
2006-09-03 17:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by karkov48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has anger issues, better to find out early and move on instead of letting his anger turn to abusive behavior. Control is control and when he thinks he doesn't have it he responds by getting mad at you, does that sound like a healthy relationship to you? Doesn't sound that way to me.
2006-09-03 17:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with talking.. guys and girls are people, we can all talk and have friends..
I think it's shy but more so , immature to think that talking to the opposite sex is a big deal.. So don't worry.... nothing wrong at all
2006-09-03 17:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody needs space and friends ,just talking how much and how long is what your b/f is watching and could lead to something if not careful,but also being jealous could be an ax to the relationship,so you both really have to watch yourself your friends and his jealously.
2006-09-03 17:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the kind of boyfriend you have. If he doesnt like You to talk to other guys, then Respect his decision.
2006-09-03 17:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out for the jealous, controlling types, alot of them turn out to be wife beaters.
2006-09-03 17:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by Juniper C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then your disrespecting him,if you cared about his feelings you wouldn't do it in front of him.What you do when he's not there is your business.Long as your just talking.And he has to accept that.
2006-09-03 17:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? What! From now on you can only speak to women? It's called control, sweetie; set his butt straight now or dump him....
2006-09-03 17:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋