My ex & I have had alot of troubles. & we both feel it has been most of my fault as 2 why we're how we are now. I didnt cheat on him or nething extreme. But when he'd cry id ignore or blow him off sometimes. I feel like crap for it now but at the time i didnt care. Now that we're over everythings different. He says he still loves me & always will but he acts so different now. He doest treat me all sweet like he used 2. & he's spending alot of time w/this new girl. When we're together & hanging out we're perfect & so in love w/each other. But he says i call to much & im not giving him enough time. Should it be ok for him to be seeing some one else because of our past? Is him not caring under the lines of "giving him time"? Or is he just stringing me along...Now it hurts so bad kus i know what i did & how i ruined us & everything we could of been. But how do i fix it ? And how much time and space should i put up with? How far is too far? What do i until he is ready? When do i give up?
2006-09-03 17:09:49 · 3 answers · asked by xbinary_dreamsx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant really fix this, i know how you feel, ive been there before. Your best option is to move on, maybe talk to him and eventually break up with him and if he really cares for you he will fight for you but if he runs straight into this other girls arms then you should be glad you broke up with him when you did because he was going to no matter what. I know it hurts and you feel like you want to die. be strong, spend time with friends and do things that make you happy.
2006-09-03 17:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one if you pushed him away when he cried to you that is pretty harsh I have had that happen to me and now I feel diffrently about my ex that is the most hurtful thing you can do to someone thats just wants to be in your arms for comfort. He probably got tired of you putting him 2 or ingnoring him and now he found someone that cares... Don't wait around he probably moved on ...Let him be but don't close the door on him leave it open but wait forever.....Just be friends and your find out sooner or later what he really wants...Good luck ....Don't treat him bad anymore if u get him back....
2006-09-04 00:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look here gurl i was in your bfs shoes at onetime and one of my exes was like you everything you said i ignored her cuz i liked the attention. To hell with him like they did to me and you will find out that he is going to want you back. LIke i said he just likes the attention and when ever you stop calling hes going to get jealous and thas when your going to be saying to your self i got him right where i want him. If he really cares for you he will do this just like i said. BUt if not tuff luck gurl. But remeber you dont really deserve this loser. He is just trying to make you feel guilty for what you did in the past i know i did. And that put alot of uneeeded pain in my exes heart. To hell with the loser and find yourself a better man.
2006-09-04 00:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by the_cheap_rolex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋