So a guy i like, who i thought liked me has blown off me off two times. he calls and texts saying he wants to see me repeatly. when it comes to that day, he just keeps saying ill call you later and then wants to hang out at one in the morning. hes not interested or just trying to use me, and i should forget about him right?
2006-09-03 16:52:45 · 16 answers · asked by summerblue722 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1 am? All I have to say is BOOTY CALL!!!! Really, just forget about him. If he only wants to give you the time of night, then why bother giving him any thought?
2006-09-03 16:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Yooper chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a very complicated situation...i believe that if he keeps saying he wants to see you, then he really does. ive been blown off a few times too...nothing fun but the dude always came back with an excuse like "i fell asleep"..and i believed him. just because he "blows you off" doesnt necessarily mean hes just messing with you. i mean sometimes it does...but it differs with every guy. but again if hes calling you and texting you and wanting to see you....then hes not just blowing you off to play games. if you dont care for him that much...forget him. but if you think hes something special...first things first...just talk to him about it, or pick at him like "so your not going to blow me off tonight again are you hehehe" and like make a joke of it.
sorry if i didnt help. i tried.
2006-09-04 00:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by cutiepatootie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"never feed pearls to a swine"! If you threw the most brilliant set of pearls into a trough where pigs eat, what would they do? They would just eat them. They don't realize their beauty and worth. In other words, don't give yourself to a person who doesn't appreciate you. If he doesn't realize how fabulous you are, and he doesn't, he's already blown you off two times...so let him go..Only give yourself to people who truly deserve you. He doesn't!!
2006-09-04 00:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Wikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him, tell him either he takes you out or hangs out with you, if not you think it would be better if ya'll go your separate ways. You be the one to open the talk up. Be straight up honest with him, then you won't have to waste any more space in your head thinking about him.
2006-09-03 23:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just a shy guy. anyway even if he was, its not fair on you that he keeps doing this to you. next time he blows you off or the next time he makes plans with you, msg him back and say this is his last chance. he needs to learn that you arent just gonna wait for him.
2006-09-03 23:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it.
Maybe he has other girls who he's going out with & you are always "plan B".
"Plan A" just always seems to work out; that's why he always has to re-schedule or cancel on you.
He's taking you for granted.
2006-09-04 00:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you should. it sounds to me like he's interested in something more than a relationship wanting to hang out at one in the morning seems like there's something more on his plate. but that's just my opinion.
2006-09-04 00:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him!! hehehe blowing you off for the 2nd time is enough for you to get the hint that hes just playin around... u deserve better
2006-09-03 23:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by angelgrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably is interested, but guys have one track minds. hes probably hanging with his friends in the evenings.
2006-09-03 23:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by karen s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't make the time for you then why the hell should you. Stop wasting your time and find someone who will make the time.
2006-09-03 23:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by ~carmie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋