why was my mom so pissed?

Question

I'm in middle schoold, but I was playing KH2 and allowing my siblings under the age of 10(games rated E10) watch and at the end when it came to the end reavealing simba had a child I made a joke about sex like I would if it where my friends watching.... them my mom got pissed..... I don't get it.....

my sister was 5 and my brother was 9 I thought it was ok because my sister never listens and my brother knows about sex and stuff...

Answer 1

Your mom was angry for several reasons I would guess.
One is because you are a little young to be discussing sex. I'm
not saying you shouldn't know about it because not knowing will
get you in more trouble than knowing. There are some very sly kids out there who will get you in a lot of trouble especially with sex.
Second your siblings are younger. The nine year old not so much
because he and you are close in age. The five year old is a whole
different story. She is a little too young to completely understand about sex and definately not old enough to get a joke about it.
She is going to ask questions that your parent's are prob not
ready to answer with her. Five year olds are FULL of questions
and are too immature (some) to get the concept of sex just yet.
For now just tell your mom your sorry, you didn't really mean
any harm and didn't realize it was going to make her so angry.
Not a big deal.
I have a 7 year old and a 3 year old. My 7 year old has a general
idea of how babies are made and what not but she isn't mature
enough for the whole story just yet. Some things need to be done
a certain way so as not to confuse you know.
Don't listen to people who say your mom is stupid or whatever.
If she hadn't gotten angry that means she doesn't care and
that is worse. Your mom sounds like she cares about you and
your siblings and want to protect you all. It isn't easy for a parent
to see their babies growing up so fast.
Just remember it is ok to joke but remember sex is a serious
thing and not something to play around with if you aren't
prepared to handle the stuff that comes along with it....
KIDS or worse....disease.
You think your mom wants you to have a baby anytime soon?
Not a chance. That would ruin all your fun as a kid so be a kid!
I have KH and KH2 and let my kids see it. It is only rated that
because there is mild violence, you know having to beat
the heartless with a key is considered violence ;)

Answer 2

Well if your mom didn't approve, it's probably because that game isn't rated for children that age. Heck it's not even rated for kids your own age. Your brother and sister are young and impressionable. At some point in time they are going to repeat what you said. You may not think they heard it or cared, but you're mistaken. Little ones are like sponges and they hear just about everything. And then at some point in time, they'll repeat it. How would you feel if your 5 yr old sister started making comments like the one you made? You didn't talk that way at her age, yet you are setting the example. Every younger sibling immitates the older one. What you said, isn't exactly what should be coming out of the mouths of babes. I'm sorry, I agree with your mother. Go apologize and then use more care in watching what you say around them before your mom takes away the video game.

Answer 3

I am not exactly sure what your question is, it is not very clear but I will try to answer. While playing a video game you made a joke about sex and your siblings were in the room, I suspect you caught your mom off guard. It is very hard for parents, (mom's especially) to hear one of their children talking about sex especially with even younger children in the room. It is hard for parents to imagine that their child could even come up with sex talk much less joke about it. I suggest you talk with mom alone and ask her straight out why it upset her so much. Listen, don't argue just listen and let her point of view sink in and then tell her yours in a nice respectful way. If you can see what she is trying to say and you agree somewhat this would be the time to apologize and tell her you will be more aware of what you are saying in the future around your siblings. Communication is the key to a happy adolescence's. Good Luck

Answer 4

I am not sure what E10 is but it sounds like you should not be letting this child to watch this the child is still way to young to be exposed to this sort of thing. As a mum of both teen and teen adults and a 5 year old I tell them to be very careful of what the young one See's in the games or on the puter. I don't want the little one to be influenced by this sort of thing. There brains are like sponges at this young age and they soak it all up and then take it to school and tell there friends about it and then there could be all sorts of trouble even with the parents losing the child to welfare

Answer 5

Probably your mom isn't used to how you act when you're around your friends. Second, it's probably not appropriate for you're younger siblings to hear that kind of stuff the way you probably said it from you. They don't know all the stuff you know about sex and she probably wants to explain sex to them in a way they can understand. Maybe she overreacted but it's a delicate subject.

Answer 6

Because she's weird and probably thinks that your siblings don't already know this. I personally think it's fine for kids to know, I mean, it's a natural part of life, who cares? Parents scare me sometimes. Not my parents, of course, but other parents sometimes just really freak me out. Especially here.
Ah, Kingdom Hearts 2.....one of the best games ever......

Answer 7

YOUR MOM PROBABLY GOT MAD BECAUSE YOU ASSUMED A PARENTAL ROLE BY ALLOWING YOUR SIBLINGS TO INDULGED IN R10 RATED GAME AND GROWN UP CONVERSATION. SEX IS A VERY SERIOUS TOPIC. ESPECIALLY AROUND TENDER EARS LIKE YOUR SIBLINGS. AT THAT AGE KIDS SHOULD NOT BE EXPOSED TO SUCH A SERIOUS TOPIC. 5 YEARS OLD IS YOUNG AND KIDS MAY NOT ACT LIKE THEY ARE LISTENING BUT THEY REALLY ARE. SEX SHOULD BE ONLY BE DISCUSSED BY THOSE OF US WHO ARE INVOLVED IN IT THROUGH MARRIAGE. SEX IS SACRED AND HONORABLE AND NOT TO BE TAKEN LIGHTLY. NOT TO BE DISCUSSED OPENLY AROUND BABIES AS YOUR LITTLE SISTER AND BROTHER. SOMETIMES THERE IS A LOT OF EMOTIONAL HURT AND PAIN THAT COMES WITH SEX. YOUR LITTLE BROTHER MAY HAVE HEARD OF SEX BUT HE HAS NO IDEA WHAT REAL SEX ENTAILS. APOLOGIZE TO YOUR MOTHER AND TELL HER THAT IT WON'T HAPPEN AGAIN. SEX IS A GROWN UP THING AND YOU WERE ACTING LIKE A PARENT OR AN ADULT WHEN YOU ALLOWED YOUR SIBLINGS TO INDULGE IN A RATED 10 GAME AND MADE AN EXPLICIT COMMENT. JUST LEARN FROM THIS MISTAKE AND ASK FOR FORGIVENESS AND TRY NOT TO DO IT AGAIN. BELIEVE ME PARENTS REALLY DO KNOW BEST IN THE LONG RUN.

Answer 8

Honey, you are in middle school. You have to learn that everything that you say around your friends you can't say in front of mama. And because you are in middle school you shouldn't be making any sex jokes anyway. You are too young to be thinking about it.

Answer 9

i don't know what kh2 is but anywho
do u not know the 3 things not to talk about when Ur moms is around
u can remember them with this easy acronym

S ex
A lcohol
D rugs

u just cant talk about these things when she around!!

Answer 10

well because if you are not old enough to have sex then you shouldn't be talking about it! and kids under the age of 18 shouldn't be hearing your jokes!!!