I am 16. There are a couple guys impreticualr that I really want to notice me. Unfourtuantly, they either have girlfriends, or display no intrest in me. I talk to them about school and work, but it doesn't go much farther than that. I always try to smile around them, but when I try to be myself it seems like I am trying to hard and I end up looking superficial. I have no idea what to do to get their attention. Please help get these guys to notice me. Suggestions?
2006-09-03 16:41:10 · 13 answers · asked by Lydia K. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At 16 you just think you want these guys to notice you. Lust, puppy love, crush, call it what you will has a way of putting blinders on a person. The best way to find the right person for you is to stop looking so hard, never know, it may be that someone is trying the same with you. Everything in life happens for a reason and leads us down a certain path(hot always the easiest one) leading us just to the place where we are suppose to be with the person we are suppose to be with. Relax and enjoy life and quit trying so hard. Good Luck
2006-09-03 16:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by Robert V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing you need to do is be carful about giving out your agae since your still a Minor. now to answer the question, hun you have (the rest) of your life and more,to have any guy/man you want, but trying to be somebody you really arent, does nothing but make guys think your easy! hun your only 16 have fun being a kid, but if you really must pursue this, you just act like your self, after all who else can you be?, and if being yourself around guy's,they have a problem with that, they want you for All the Wrong reasons! good luck hun
2006-09-03 16:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. You're right. You are trying to hard and as much as guys say they dont like it, they do like it when a girl plays hard to get. Just focus on your work and pretend you have no interest in them other than a friend. And then they will be like what she doesnt like me like that and they will try to get you to like them. Works most of the time. Or you can try to be the mysterious beautiful girl that no one knows much about and they will want to know more about you so they will approach you. Just relax and dont try so hard. When you look for something, it takes longer to find when you're always searching for it. When you forget something and you try hard to remember it, it never comes to you. So just be cool, have fun, and do your job. They will notice you.
2006-09-03 16:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Care Bear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want them to notice you? Try a tube top, a thong, a miniskirt and some stilettos. Works for Paris Hilton...
2006-09-03 16:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a new hair style or something like a sexy oufit that is acceptable by your dress code. show the assets to the best of taste. not to trashy.
2006-09-03 16:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by yankeecowboy10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe these are not the guys you should be looking for. Just relax and you never know who will walk into your life!
2006-09-03 16:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear Sexy Dresses and look out for your body language
2006-09-03 16:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by rockiee80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop going out of your way to speak to them...you are trying waaay to hard. i can tell just by reading your question. and if they have girlfriends then you shouldn't be thinking about them anyways.
2006-09-03 16:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop spending so much time trying to impress them, and more time educating yourself and becoming independent.
2006-09-03 16:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by julesl68 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you were older.. OLDER... like 18 i would suggest lower cut tops and tighter pants.. maybe even show some skin.. like belly button.. skirts.. shorts.. sundresses are nice.. if all else fails ask them straight out .. or feed them..
2006-09-03 16:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by terryshawn1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋