Please, what should I do about this girl?

Question

Together for 9 months, 6 of which was GREAT until she started to get cold feet + our differences start to come out. We started to have you know some arguments about these differences mainly for me to work them out. I would get lil attitudes from her & dont know why, but mainly due to PMS, this was definatetly the reason for the last lil agument that prompted the end. Said think we should be friend, I pled & she said ok, will reconsider. I admit, I didnt give her enough time & due to my 'pushing' we end up in another lil argument & she said well, totally over. Pled again, she still cares about me & want a relationship but cant stand the arguing, we now totally understand each other, but she said we are friends & she dont rule me out of a future relationship. I cant help but feel to be with her, but what to do? There is a guy friend that likes her & is pushing himself on her, & trying to hang with her, she is & i CANT stop it, what to do? This just 1 week + 2/3 days now :( I'm 26 she 19

Pleasenote though that it is clear between us thatif she/we start to date or have interest in other people we should tell each other, she hasnt told me that about this guy. he is a really close friend, but I cant help the way I feel, she is vulnerable now and he can take advantage.

But I know, she said it herself that she does still care about me, said she dont want to be in a relationship with me cause of the arguments, though I made it clear that we now totally understand each other. I know it will take time for her tosee that, but i cant help ut feel that this guy gonna keep pushing on her & I loose her. But she DONT give second chances & she has given me that, but make it clear that we are friends right now but dont rule out the future (no specific time). I know I am to give it time & her space but what should I do to do that and keep her interested at the same time with this guy breathing down her neck that cause of their friendship she gonna hang with him & maybe more ???

Answer 1

Good thing you are truly finding out the truth about each other.
Slow down and don't get so worried. Be yourself and let her be herself.

If PMS is a problem, then maybe seeing a doctor, getting more exercise, and eating good balanced meals would help.

Answer 2

I THINK THAT YOU NEED TO JUST MOVE ON AND START
LIVING YOUR LIFE, SHE HAS MADE THE CHOICE TO BE JUST
FRIENDS. RIGHT NOW YOU NEED TO RESPECT THAT
DECISION. AND SHE ALREADY HAS MOVE ON THEN THERE
NOTHING YOU CAN DO BUT DO THE SAME. IF IT MEANT TO
BE IT WILL BE. BUT WORRY ABOUT IT WILL DO NO ONE
GOOD AT ALL. ESPECIALLY YOU.