I have a friend that I am detaching from. It is hard. He has a girlfriend that he lives with. He has told me that he does not know how long its going to last and for me to "hang tight".I know that it is game. Wanting me to hang on just in case. The problem I have now ,is that I know he lives with this woman, he calls me in the middle of the night from his home. Where in the hell is she. I know she does not work at night. Just like I found out he lives with a woman, I found out what type of work she does. What nerve. Men -how could he do such a thing. It makes me believe that no one is faithful. Is he just a dog or is he confused about wanting her or wanting me?
2006-09-03 16:35:44 · 8 answers · asked by victory 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know the feeling, I have dated someone who was living with me and doing actually the same thing. As long as you hang in he will continue to play the game with both of you. In my case I was very faithful and did everything for this man. He would not leave because he had a lot to lose (not me) material things. I could have stayed and let it continue. Be smart stop it now. Am I right in saying he does not have caller ID? Can you call him whenever you want? If you know for sure make it known to her. In my case I was very quiet and found out all the information I needed, I then let her know what he was doing. Believe me most women appreciate knowing, the trick is to be very mature about this. Don't let him continue to hurt others, because as long as they know they can get away with it, men will do this. Also, dogs are more faithful then men. If he is doing this to her and he eventually left her for you the odds are he will do the same to you. Good Luck!
2006-09-05 21:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a player, I was one as well at one time. He is just lloking for some play and wants a standby just in case this one blows up. He is probably calling you from another line in the house. He is not confused at all. 99%of guys really do not know what they truly want in life until about 30. Until then they are looking for the next party, naked woman, and beer. Get the hell away from him. If you hook up with him what is to say he won't do this to you? Once a cheater always a cheater. Trust Me. Seen it over and over. Good Luck
2006-09-03 23:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Robert V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee that's an insult to dogs they are faithful....Unlike some men I know. Dog is to good of a word for cheating,lying men.Your right he is trying to keep you on a string just in case it doesn't work out with her. I hope you close all doors to him and go on with your life and find a good man.
2006-09-03 23:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably in the closet talking to you, or outside or he may be using his cell phone. Hopefully you got caller ID because the next time he calls, I wouldn't pick up the phone. If he is cheating on her he will definitely and surely cheat on you too.
2006-09-03 23:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you let him do this, he will!! If you want to tolerate him using the both of you, then hang in there, but
you are asking to have your feelings hurt over and over.
2006-09-03 23:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a dog
2006-09-03 23:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by mitchfrmn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a dog
2006-09-03 23:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?
2006-09-03 23:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by french_dude4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋