Ok, i went out with this guy i really liked, and he cheated on me so we broke up and all that good stuff, well then i fell for this other guy well this other guy had to move, so we never really got to go out, all we did was kiss. The other night the one that cheated on me kissed me, and now i think i like him again but the guy that moved is supposed to come down this weekend and were supposed to hang out together. Which one should i choose the one that broke my heart or the one that lives an hour away? Please help me!!!
2006-09-03 16:24:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cheaters sometimes change, but mostly don't. I'd say give the other guy a chance, better to not get yur heart broken, or tell the old one you are hanging w/ the new guy, but if things don't work out you'll call him!!!
2006-09-03 16:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Yooper chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the one that broke your heart obvisously never cared or he wouldnt of hurt you. I wouldnt go back with him. Once a cheater always a cheater cause they cant control what they think at the time. And for the one that lives an hour away, long distance relationships dont last cause ya'll will end up either not talking or dating new people. If you choose the guy who broke your heart, your just asking for another heartache.
2006-09-03 23:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by [Pro♥Mom] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go back with the guy that cheated on you. That is such a bad character flaw...and very hard to forget something like that...it is so disrespectful to you...so tell the cheater to kiss you g'bye because you love yourself too much to be hurt by him again...and as for your weekend...you are basing it on a suppose to come....and we are suppose to hang out kinda thing....so if he does come down...I would spend some time with him and enjoy yourself.
2006-09-03 23:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If he cheated on you once that Uknow of what makes you think he aint gonna cHeAt again.
Now the guy that lives an hour away...?whats an hour ? I would get together with the guy coming down this weekend to SEE YOU ! C'mon girl you already know ; )
2006-09-03 23:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by luuvabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is once a cheater always a cheater. Go for the other guy. It will mean something in the long run. Don't go for the quick fix.
2006-09-03 23:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by konfusedkathy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the guy only lives an hour away then go out with him and besides the guy cheated on u what makes u think he wont do it again? i would deffinatly pcik the hour a way guy
2006-09-03 23:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by Meredith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No doubt about it ... say goodbye to the cheater. Read Why Men Love Bitches or He's Just Not That Into You.
You're an awesome woman, and you need to find someone else who treats you that way!
2006-09-03 23:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Get rid of this jerk and find a third guy who is faithful and in the same zip code.
2006-09-03 23:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the cheater.
Come to my house.
We can hang with the other guy.
And help you find a third guy maybe in the future.
If not, im here for you!
2006-09-03 23:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would give the second guy a chance.......He never broke your heart.......Maybe the first guy is back because he is on the rebound........Just remember, only YOU can make decisions about how you want to live your life..............Take care, honey.....
2006-09-03 23:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋