2006-09-03 16:15:59 · 28 answers · asked by 1leapinglizard 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Me classy for your daughter's sake, but if you can get in a jab without your daugher hearing it, do it. Tell his girlfriend you feel sorry for her.
2006-09-04 00:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Classy Granny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she invited?
No matter, just look the best you've ever looked. Wipe that hurt and jealous look off of your face and smile like you love the fact that that worm is no longer your husband.
Enjoy yourself, ignore them, stay far away from where they are and just don't look their way. If the girlfriend is dumb enough to approach you, be the sweetest thing next to honey. Then dis her in the ladies room with your best friend! Lol.
Obviously that guy has a problem if he needs a woman close to his daughters age on his arm. Be sooooo happy you are rid of him and move on...happily.
2006-09-03 16:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Know that you are the better person. He has a girlfriend 20 years younger because he can't deal with a mature woman his own age; he needs hero worship and the envy of his old-fart friends.
Know that you are a better person than his younger girlfriend, who needs a "daddy" because she has some emotional issues and can't connect with a man her own age.
Know that you are the mother of the bride, and "she" is just the chick he's sleeping with. YOU are so much better than BOTH of them.
2006-09-03 16:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Umm, what is so wrong with your self esteem that you can't just get over it? Your husband is no better because he has some young new spouse, and you should know that. Dress up really nice, and be cordial and kind, and nothing will happen. There is nothing to cope with.
2006-09-03 16:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by reverenceofme 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can always laugh and smile because there is no way that there is love in that relationship. She's just a money grubbing whore and he's the type that wouldn't know a good thing if it bit him on the ***. I mean honestly, the man isn't too bright if he left you. ;-) Have a great day.
2006-09-03 16:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lil b 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
his choice of a younger woman has little or nothing to do about you it has everything to do with his own insecurities, just smile and acknowledge them this may be one of the last times you see them. then you mingle with the guests and have a good time. this will be the best wedding gift you could possibly give to your daughter.
2006-09-03 16:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by mochi.girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up and keep your distance. For the sake of your daughter act like the better woman that you are. He's a jerk and when the hair falls out he'll be alone too.
2006-09-03 17:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by hpygrl01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone knows he is the one in denial! He is not in a real relationship and everyone know it!
So hold your head up high and avoid both of them at all costs.
Make a few passive aggressive jokes at their expense if you can, but do not be a drama queen.
2006-09-03 16:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you look as hot as possible, know that you have more wisdom than she does in her pinky finger and remind yourself of how happy you are for yourself that your life is fantastic. Remember, she's the one with the sloppy seconds. Ha.
2006-09-03 16:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by mortyfint 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do your best to also bring a date with you...even if it's just a friend or a co-worker. Buy yourself a new outfit, get your hair done, etc., so that you feel good about yourself. Be civil and smile even if it kills you.
2006-09-03 16:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by Kiki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋