My boyfriend and i are 20, and iam his first serious girlfriend and i think i may even be his first kiss. When he kisses me its in a way he would his mum on the cheek. Hes taken to the rest of the physical stuff fine (though we haven't slept together yet) How do i fix this problem? I feel as though talking to him might effect his self esteem and i wouldn't know how to go about just sticking my tongue down his throat. Please help.
2006-09-03 16:00:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anyone have any ideas?
2006-09-03 19:03:50 · update #1
have him close his eyes ...not do a thing but feeel.... and u kiss him like u would want him to.....he will be floored and he will learn real quick how u want it done....ps he will think if is just romantic on your part..and u will have taught a lesson in french kissing..lol
2006-09-03 16:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect. Why not one night just ask him to follow your lead and show him how you would like to be kiss. Take your time and just have a fun make out session.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-03 16:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it a joke... joking around... having fun... this is how I kiss and how I like it... How do you like it? Then he can see/learn what you like and you might learn something that he might prefer and no one gets hurt. Kiss the back of your hand and make huge noisy raspberry kisses as part of the fun. Maybe he would love to learn but is too embarrassed to mention it. Give him a raspberry on his navel and give it a soft kiss too. You'll both have a blast. Good luck.
2006-09-03 16:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to teach him by showing him. Just take the lead when you kiss.
2006-09-03 16:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way he's gonna learn is if you teach him or tell him. Go ahead! Teach him! I guarantee you he won't hate you for it.
2006-09-03 16:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Big "D" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him and just practice a lot. My first bf acted like he was trying to eat my teeth but I didn't say anything and eventually he got it right. I was also his first gf.
2006-09-03 16:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first time my girlfriend poked her tongue through my lips, I was in orbit, SO excited. It never gets old, thrills me every time.
Plus she found my ticklish spots, combined with French kissing, she pretty much owns me.....
2014-01-27 15:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by Brian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to your boyfriend and do it. but take it easy at the same time.
another way is tell him that you want to try some thing new. after that then ask him if you like it or not.
2006-09-03 16:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to tilt his head a little the opposite way you're tilting yours. Just let it be natural, I guess.
2016-03-17 07:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor kid..... touchy subject..... just be casual about it I suppose. Kind of show him how you wanna be kissed...
2006-09-03 16:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋