we already talked about marriage and he wants to marry me someday but i cant really tell if hes bluffing just so he can get his papers to become a citizen.
2006-09-03 15:46:55 · 21 answers · asked by shortstuff2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd wait until he is a citizen and then see if he still wants to marry you
2006-09-03 15:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by mrs.dennis.10.6.07 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you have any doubts about this guy, go with your gut intuition. if you think he's bluffing (which you must suspect he is b/c you are asking this question), then he may just be trying to use you to get a greencard (citizen status, which he can get if he does marry you).
i'm sorry, but because you have doubts and doubts are rarely ever without just cause, i suspect that that is the case.
be careful.
2006-09-03 22:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is educated and can get a job on his own. I do not see any problem. If he is going to be totally dependent on you I would be somewhat cautious because he maybe using you to become a citizen.
2006-09-03 22:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by ALBPACE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes do not get yourself invloved - you are in for a rude awakening. pain is knocking at your door - do not answer the door - just say no. he wants to marry ANY citizen and will leave you as soon as he getting his green card or will get kick out of the country and will leave you hear to fight for him if you win and get him back in the country and he gets his card he will leave you. He looking for someone to use to get into the country do not be his victim. he is fishing charm and kindness is his bait.
2006-09-03 22:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, now a days it is safe to be skeptical. Ask yourself, how long has he been here, what steps has he taken towards citizenship, is he will to join the reserves...or is he looking for easy street. Can you verify anything he says? Your move.
2006-09-03 22:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're worried about it then you obviously don't know him well enough to really marry him -- unless you can get some $$$ out of it. In that case be honest with eachother and go for it.
2006-09-03 22:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by Andy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard, if he is realy concernd about his papers. then you should realy thing long and hard about this... Ask your family and frinds about what they think of him!!! and tell them you want the TRUTH!!!!! not there truth were they say one thing and mean another (yes there people that are like that) I would not think about marrage for a while. There are just so many PIGS out there it is hard to tell, I hope he is not one of those 'pigs'
Best wishes,
And hope that my answer helped,
Adam D.
2006-09-03 22:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, especially if he is talking about marriage early in the relationship.
2006-09-03 22:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell, trust is a hard thing to give to anyone especially if there's signs that you could be in a situation to be taken advantage of.
2006-09-03 22:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should unless he wants to become a citizen first and then wants to marry you.
2006-09-03 22:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by burtonsgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋