Let's just say I was practically falling asleep and ignoring this person in order for them to leave. They didn't get the hint.
2006-09-03 15:44:45 · 26 answers · asked by Lin 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Just say that you have an early day tomorrow and really need to get some sleep.
2006-09-03 15:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by kbraut832 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Stop the problem before it starts by giving them both a "from" and "to" time, the way you would with a party. When you invite them over, just say to them, "do you want to come over tonight? why don't you come around 6 until 11, does that work?" and then when it gets to be 10:30, 10:45, you can say "wow, it's almost 11 already!" and start cleaning up. If you let them know before hand what time you want them out, it won't seem as rude.
2006-09-04 15:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult, almost impossible to tell a guest to leave without offending or at least hurting their feelings.
The closest is to jump up, and say, OMIGOD! Is it that late? I have to get up early for overtime. Can we call tomorrow and make a date for you to come back so we can continue this excellent conversation? I am so sorry that I have to work overtime because we are having such a great time.
Beware of this if the person works with you, hee, hee.
2006-09-03 22:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by retiredslashescaped1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Politely tell them that you are getting tired and must turn in, then see them to the door. You can help soften this by either setting a date for another get together or telling them that you must be in touch within the next few days to schedule another get together.
2006-09-04 12:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by JenV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask someone to leave very nicely. Just tell your guest that you have had a very long day and that you were so glad to see them and have them as your guest, but you have a long day tomorrow and it's time for the night to end.
We have friends who start with the kids, telling them to give goodnight kisses and hugs, because it's past everyone's bed time and it's time to call it a night. For us, that our cue that it's time to go!
2006-09-03 22:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by dazee052 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them it's been a great visit but you really need to get some sleep. It dosen't matter if they are offened or not a good guest knows when to leave!
2006-09-03 23:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by Yvonne D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the time of day, if it's evening I'd say I've had fun talking, but I need to get to bed, I have a busy day tomorrow or if it's day time, say I've enjoyed talking with you but I have an appointment in an hour and I need to get ready.
2006-09-04 07:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by Classy Granny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "I'm really sorry to cut our night short, but I've very tired and I think I need to get some sleep. Thanks so much for coming over though!!! Wanna do something next week?" That seems to work for me when they're not getting the hint.
2006-09-03 22:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just politely say "If you don't mind, I'm ready to call it a night. Let me walk you to the door. Next time, let's meet somewhere for lunch when I have more time to spend with you."
2006-09-03 22:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by Chick with pets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you had a nice time but are going to bed as you are getting their coat and leading them to the door.G-night.
2006-09-03 22:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by countrykarebare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋