I'm 22 and my bf is 21. I'm his first gf and he's my first bf. Although when we first started going out, he told me that he wanted to save it to marriage. But then he changed his mind. He wanted to do it, saying I was too attractive not to do it with me. Since we were both virgin, it wasn't really successful the first time. I guess we both got a bit embarassed and stopped trying. Now it's been a while and I just want to do it with him. Not b/c I really want to, but b/c I love him and I feel it's the right thing to do. But now he's telling me that he changed his mind back again to save it for marriage. I don't understand. I don't know what happened to his "you are too attractive not to do it with you."
We talked about getting married after his graduation, but nothing serious. As long as we are together, he would always give me oral and I would give him a bj. He admits that those are also a sin but he keeps doing them with me. He just wouldn't have real sex but he can't really explain.
2006-09-03 15:43:59 · 7 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
becuase he's stupid.
eh should bone u while he can. some idiots dont know a good thing when they have it. i wished i had that chance.
he's an idiot. leave him, then bone another guy that deserves your sex.
2006-09-03 15:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a keeper! No one is perfect! It seems comfortable with oral. I've yet ran into a woman who feels it's ok for a male to push that on a woman! I feel the same thing holds in reverse! Respect him enough to progress at his own pace, the same as you would want!
2006-09-03 15:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he really wants to wait to do it. I think the first time was done in a moment of weakness. If you love him, don't try to pressure him about it.
2006-09-03 15:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok a way u can atrct him do not tell him that u rented a room or a house put candles in the that room and penuddles all over the bed and with ouot him know let him walk into the room and u waiting on the bed with a sexy logerderay and a rose in ur hand and if u want with slow music and tell me wat guy will go crazzzy over that
2006-09-03 15:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
(1Cr 7:9) But if they cannot contain,( Their passion) let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.( with Passion or in hell)
He may be a moral Christian man. Thank the Almighty God for him and and let God take care of it and if you cannot control your selves, then marry that you may not sin.
2006-09-03 15:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Michael JENKINS 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the first time is still haunting him and he thinks time will change that, that it will be different if he was married. But really I dunno, you really have to talk to him if you want the answer.
2006-09-03 15:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants to wait or hes to scarewd or hes not to sure how to do it or hes afraid that you might think he sux at it. did you talk to him about it maybe try complamenting him about things he does
2006-09-03 15:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋