im not the person you would call pretty. i have braces and very low self esteem. i really like this kid in my class. i told him i liked him once before about 2months ago and it stayed just as we are..friends. he's not the kind of friend i hang out alot with, he's just the one i hang out in school with.please dont tell me to hang out with him more in school b/c it's kinda hard when most of his friends dont really like me.well,i like him alot and i want to find out if he likes me without asking him flat out for awkward moments sake. i dont want to ask him out eather b/c he might think im a total weirdo b/c im a girl asking him out, and plus it doesnt feel right to me. i talk to him alot and i try to be myself but sometimes i let my emotions come over me and i get really embarrassed and stuff and just let my other friends talk with him while i just listen. i get really red in the face and i dont even know. he also has this friend,somtimes i think they are more then just friends.help?!??
2006-09-03 15:40:50 · 9 answers · asked by Nina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get one of your friends to talk to him and tell them to hint that you like him and ask if he likes you
2006-09-03 15:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ali T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't focus on him or anyone else for that matter until you get focus on you, if you have low self-esteem you will need to fix that first. If you like yourself, others can't help but to like you too. After you figure out that you are a great person to spend time with, try asking a guy to spend time with you. You might start by asking a different guy than your friend, he sounds like just a friend.
And, the girls in your class that you would consider "pretty" probably all have at least one or two things they don't like about themselves, in fact it's usually the people we consider most perfect that are the hardest on themselves. You at least recognize that the real problem is that you have low self-esteem, now just fix that and your problem will be solved.
2006-09-03 22:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while reading that it made me think of junior high and it made me feel emotions that i havent felt in a long time, i mean that in a non-cheesy way..... i think the best thing for you to do is just leave it alone, some day when you're older maybe something more can happen between the two of you when YOU feel more ready but for now just dont tell him how you feel again because that might end up hurting the relationship you have now, and that whole thing about him having a friend where it seems like their more then that, he might end up w. her sad to say, thats what kinda made me sad when i read this, i felt like the girl who sits back and watches all the good stuff happen to all the other pple......that feeling f-ing sucks
2006-09-03 22:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by Heat seeking missile 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not ask him out (unless you really want to)
The reason I say this is because you have already told him that you like him and he has chosen to stay your friend as opposed to ridiculing you or choosing to NOT talk to you.
The best thing is for you to move on. I know this is harsh advice, but if you ask him out and he tells you no, what are you going to do then? will you be MORE embarrassed when talking to him or stop talking to him altogether?
This is hard, because you are so young and I don't want to give you the wrong advice. this is JUST my opinion. good luck and God Bless with your decision.
2006-09-03 22:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's called a crush and they are killer... My worst crush was on a guy i was in school with from 4-8 grade. I developed the crush in the fifth grade. I found out his moms name by looking at the attendance cards. Then I looked his phone number up in the phone book. I called him and we talked on the phone all the time. he kinda liked me,and we had a lot in common. Like you, his friends didn't like me cuz i was a little fat and they made fun of me. So sometimes in school, he acted like he didn't like me. That finally, hurt my feelings enough that I stopped liking him in the 7th grade.
that's not advice just my story. good luck
2006-09-03 22:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by earthling4luv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but if you told him you liked him before, he would have made a move for you. Sounds like he just wants to be friends.
2006-09-03 22:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by sweetstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, i'd get someone(a close friend) to ask him if he has a girlfriend, and if he says no, then get them to ask him how he feels about you, you half to have more self esteem, girl, just cause you might think your not all that pretty don't mean someone else might not........
2006-09-03 22:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by miss.d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal to feel this way--just drop some more hints (i know u probably already have without even realizing it). also, if u want to know if he likes u, communicate through ur friends (preferably girls). just tell them to tell him that u like him, like, casually and see what he says back. if he just says 'oh, really?' or 'cool' tell ur friend to say 'do u like her? i wont tell anyone if u do', things like that. u would be surprised at how well it works.
2006-09-03 22:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make the move what do you have to lose? you only live once..also my pussy itches
2006-09-03 22:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋