She is turned on by it & thinks i should do it for her. I keep telling her NO & NEVER, but she keeps asking. She also wants to do me in my back door with her dildos & a strapon. Is something wrong with her ? If she loves me, would she be asking me to do this ?
2006-09-03 15:36:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what every relationship is different and some people like to do things like that but if you arent comfortable enough to do so then you should explain to her your concern and if she really cares for u then she wont pressure you to do so
2006-09-03 15:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every one is different! Don't allow anyone to push you to do what you don't want to or feel uncomfortable with.
My Ex wanted to play dress up with me and I let her. Then she told people that I liked to play dress up in women's clothes witch was false! And I always did it. Needless to say that never happened again! When you do things requested, you can really put your self in a compromising position and it can most certainly come back and bite you!
2006-09-03 15:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes ur gf... first off shes not ur wife yet so think about it shes kinky and thats cool if ur not then u should dump her cuz if shes not satisfied she will want to wander off. so either put up or shut up relationships are give and take. yea it is kind of a gross fetish but it is what it is and maybe she does things she dont like for you so i say if u love her do it...maybe not the guy but meet her half way lol i know it sounds gross but **** if it saves a relationship then it does and a relationship is half sex in my oppinion
2006-09-03 15:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by xashcroftx 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would say that if she respected you then she wouldnt be asking you because if you keep telling her no, then what point is it to keep asking she already knows that you are uncomfortable with it! hmm i get the vibe she isnt the one of she just wants that really bad! dont just do it to make her happy, you have to want it too, and it seems like you dont, so.... i would say based on what i know.... then find someone else, but that is easy for me to say because i dont know you too, so good luck!
2006-09-03 15:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ LEILANI ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her no way and to leave you alone about it. If she loves you, she should respect your choice and not try to talk you into it. If she doesn't let it go, maybe you should find someone who loves you for who you are and enjoys the male to female union.
2006-09-03 15:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by kymberly_smith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable with this and you have told her so she should not be still pressuring you into it. If she continues you should dump her. No one should try to force you to do anything you do not want to do sexually. Her persistence on you doing this shows her lack of regard for your feelings!
2006-09-03 15:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Correct, if she loves you why would she want you to do something you don't want to do. That's not love.
Tell her very nicely that you won't be doing that and if she can't accept that then I think it is time you broke up with her.
2006-09-03 15:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love has nothing to do with it .you two are not ment for one another get out of there is she continues that crap.you don't have to put up with that chit. thats just wrong.
2006-09-03 15:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her frankly that you don't like things like that. if she doesn't understand your view, she doesn't love you at all. she just wants to have some fun with you. you might have to just look for another girl who is not that way.
2006-09-03 15:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by whitesilk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yea somethin wrong wit her tell her to watch a flick
2006-09-03 15:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋