ok, so my b/f is enlisting into the service...and i am concerned...what should i do? i want him to do what he wants to do...i just don't wanna lose him....
2006-09-03 15:31:48 · 12 answers · asked by princess_anne_2009 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am happy that he knows what he wants to do...just don't want his son to grow up with no parents
2006-09-03 15:35:07 · update #1
pray
2006-09-03 15:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What make you think that? He's going into the service,,,5 weeks of basic training...6 weeks to a year of tech school, meeting and finding his way around his home base squadorn. Encourage him and be proud of him and write to him. Bake cookies and send enough for him to share (don't forget a slice of bread in the box to keep the cookies fresh). Be there is meet him when he arrives home between schools. Just be supportive.
2006-09-03 15:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u love him and he loves u as much as u feel before he goes, then everything will be ok. U have to have faith. if its meant to be, it will work out - no matter what happens along the way. No doubt it will be tough when u wont be able to be with each other like you are used to, but love will find a way. Trust me
2006-09-03 15:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just support him in his decision many people in the service are happily married.
2006-09-03 15:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he wants to go, he is going to go. What can you really do about that. I suggest you sit down with him and tell him how you feel. If he goes, maybe he really does not love you all that much.
2006-09-03 15:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your true feelings and have the best time of your life with him. Support him all the way thru and be proud of him. He willserve and defend our country.........He is the real MAN..........
2006-09-03 15:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by SNOWMAN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break it off. think of all the P he's going to get while in the service.
2006-09-03 15:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him how u feel, and he'll do what he thinks is best. Don't try to tell him what to do or what not to cause I'm guessing he'll argue and this way is better.
2006-09-03 15:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about him and let him know that you will support him in whatever he decides to do...
God bless you two..
2006-09-03 15:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by tammette39 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't want to lose him, give him the best sex ever, and tell him you'll wait!
2006-09-03 15:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel. i think you should talk about it and see what he says. just be honest, you cant go wrong that way
2006-09-03 15:34:13 · answer #11 · answered by snowbunny83090 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋