Any suggestions???
I just keep thinking about him constantly.. and NO, we were not sexual back in the day.. this is really strange as I never thought of this guy in tghe 22 yrs that I have not been with him.
2006-09-03 15:27:08 · 10 answers · asked by KathyB 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am soooo far from being bored of my life as I work full time and I am in my fourth year of University and almost finished my degree.. So, I have more than enough to keep me occupied... But I am single... And this man was SOOOO wrong for me at the time.
2006-09-03 15:38:13 · update #1
At the time, he gave me an ultimatium... either him or the guy that I was going with at the time.. as I was in an abusive relationship, I chose the abuser as I was scared as to what the abuser would do to me... And the guy walked away without a trace.. .so, it must be unleft business in my mind.. dunno.. but its something that I haven't thought about in 22 years.. this is sooo weird!! But challenging! lol
2006-09-03 15:44:15 · update #2
What's going on in your life now? Any stress? Here's what I found:
Ex Boyfriend
To see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.
To dream that your ex-boyfriend is giving you advice about your current relationship, suggests that you unconscious is telling you not to repeat the same mistakes that you had made with this ex-boyfriend.
To dream that you are being massaged by your ex-boyfriend, suggests that you need to let go of some of that defensiveness that you have been putting forth. You may have been putting up a wall or armor around you. You need to learn to trust people again.
To dream that you ex-boyfriend gives you a stuffed animal, suggests that you are seeking for reassuring and nurturing aspects of a relationship. This is not to imply that you want you ex-boyfriend back. Alternatively, the dream could represent some immature relationship which may (or may not) describe the relationship you had with your ex.
I do know that during really stressful times in my life I have a tendency to look back on the past, particularly relationships as relationships tend to be what I prefer to focus on, a good relationship makes you feel good, you know? Don't worry. It doesn't necessarily mean anything more than that.
2006-09-03 15:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, why don't you look him up and say hi and see where life has taken him? Even if you're married, you could still ask about him just out of curiosity. The mind does crazy things sometimes!
2006-09-03 22:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by AFL lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have unfinished business in your mind. He must have broke up with you and you didn't get the reason that you wanted. If you saw him tomorrow you won't have the same feeling. you will just want ot ask him a question and that question is WHY.
2006-09-03 22:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u bored with your life...of course you dream of him.you never did his stinky laundry.cook breakfast lunch and dinner for him 365 day a year..never fell in the toilet from him leaving the lid up...i think you want a fantasy man to help you escape your life.
2006-09-03 22:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by heartzz_ablaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it necessarily don't really have to do with you "being with him" the guy just probably had an impact on you and you really had a strong bond with him and you haven't let him go...
2006-09-03 22:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just a dream... I once dreamt of being in a hottub with Jim Carey... how wierd is that???
2006-09-03 22:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by tammette39 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not odd as we get older we remember the ones from our past.i dream about an x alot but it doesnt mean anything in perticular.
2006-09-03 22:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you rub "kat" thinking about him?
2006-09-03 22:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he is thinking about you too. call him it wouldnt hurt to talk to him.
2006-09-03 22:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
that was meeeeee
2006-09-03 22:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋