Cause, it always seems when I date a man, NO BODY wants him until I start dating them. The minute I begin a relationship with them, the cockroaches come out of the woodwork.
What the heck is that about............cant they just ignore them as they did before I started dating him?
2006-09-03 15:26:49 · 23 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is so true - I just got engaged in May and since then I've been hit up by co-workers, friends and even some of HER friends! Women just like the idea of a man who can commit and when they find one they like, whether they are taken or not, they lock in and go for the kill - sucks
2006-09-03 15:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go. Try one of those dating services on line. Put out a few bucks and see if they can match you to someone else. That would be my advice to you. It's only human nature to want what someone else has. Find someone who you want & who wants you. Ignore everything else & remember....you get what you pay for. Here at Yahoo Q&A, where it's free, just isn't the place to find your soul-mate...and if it is, it won't be by blatantly advertising your intentions.
If you don't understand that, they you need to back up and think much further than anyone can advise you to do. This isn't a dating network.
2006-09-03 22:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Shadow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, sounds like someone ruffled your feathers.
Do you know these cockroaches?
If so, maybe your feeding them too much information about your man. Makes them want a piece. I don't understand why this bothers you unless these men are leaving you for them. Give us a little more information if you want a really good answer.
2006-09-03 22:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Shawnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a nice looking lady. A pretty woman sometimes gives a man a lil more status, which in turn causes the other women to act like bees (they start humming around).
2006-09-03 22:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by mitteycole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the men you are dating take off after these cockroaches then he wasn't worth it in the first place.
You'll find someone who only wants you and you'll love him for it.
2006-09-03 22:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think in a way it happans to everyone like your in a relation ship and then you have guys that want to date you and of course you turn them down then when you become singal thiers no one asking ya out. i wouldnt let it get to you as long as your boyfriends not a cheeter. is it the same girls that go after your bfs when your dating them??????? cause if so they could be jelouse of you cause your in a relation ship and not you
2006-09-03 22:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try using a positive approach???? Look at it as a compliment to YOU. Perhaps these other women think if he's good enough to meet YOUR high standards.....then he must be a great catch!
No, that doesn't excuse their behavior but it does prove that you are better than these other women are.
2006-09-03 22:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably because some women want they cant have it is more challenging that way or sometimes not but anyways they go after someone elses instead of finding one of their own.
2006-09-03 22:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by tiggerluvnmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think to some women, there is nothing more attractive than another woman's man.
It must be some weird competition or something.
2006-09-03 22:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I'll be your bf. I hope you can handle a guy who wears thongs for men.
2006-09-03 22:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋