2006-09-03 15:24:49 · 27 answers · asked by SilverBbe <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well, talk to him, there are plenty of christian programs that help teens (and preteens) out
2006-09-03 15:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by josepwns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you are being serious, You are in a lot of trouble my friend, ESPECIALLY if he's only 11! Who's the Parent? AND why is an 11 year old even ABLE to come in contact with drugs? WHere do you live? You may want to consider moving? Or ship this boy QUICKLY to a out of state relative. He NEEDS intervention, and QUICKLY, it sounds as though he is VERY unhappy, he is CRYING out for attention. You didn't say if the Father is present? I'm assuming he is not, NO MAN would allow his 11 year old to act like this,unless child is emulating the Father. Your local law enforcement agency would also be a great place to start, I know your son would be mad at you for having him "locked up" but I promise you in 10 years when he's grown, he'll THANK you, By the way if you don't already have other children..You may want to consider a hysterectomy, you obviously have NO business having Children. I've been a single parent since day one and my son would NEVER act like this! EVER
2006-09-03 15:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by conniechung 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And where are you while he's doing these things?! If he has a criminal record, which by the sounds of it, I'm sure he does, you could put him in a detention center. Hopefully he'll learn something from that. In the mean time, maybe you could attend some meetings to learn to be a better parent?! Try clicking the spell checker next time too and ending your question with a question mark?. English would help?!
2006-09-03 15:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the police in your area. Explain that your son needs help before it is too late (and that is coming soon). They should be able to suggest programs available in your area that can help your son. If not go the the church and do the same thing. There is help out there, don't give up. Keep praying for your son. Good luck and don't give up on him.
2006-09-03 15:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by mik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a good rehab. He needs a lot of help. Find a rehab that deal with his issues and put him in for as long as they say he needs. He will see a therapist and have group counseling. Eventually they will bring you and your husband in for family counseling. Please do something now before he is too big to control.
Don't let people blame you for things that are beyond your control. Even good parents have children who have problems that have nothing to do with the parents. Some times its a chemical imbalance. It's not always the parents fault
2006-09-03 15:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things will only get worse if you don't act right now. Call the police and tell them your child is out of control and is a danger to himself and others. They will take him to a pysch place to be evaluated and he will probably get admitted as an inpatient on a psych floor (for kids). Maybe that will help. Good luck!
2006-09-03 15:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by Rairia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to the local police station and have them lock him up all alone for a couple of hours. Next, have convicted criminals talk to him in harse terms with no punches pulled on what a life of crime and disrespecting your mother will get you.
2006-09-03 15:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by d b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he has three options.
1. Start boot camp now.
2. Sooner or later he will end up in jail.
3. Sooner or later he will end up dead.
The first one is his chance in life.
The other two are just a matter of time.
Darryl S.
2006-09-03 15:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really hard. You need to call the police and report him. Or call DCFS for help. He needs to be taken out of your home before he decides that you are a target not a parent. Hopefully, once out of area, he will start learning lessons that will help him become that man you know he can be.
2006-09-03 15:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by kny390 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if hes not to big kick his ***.... i know that sounds bad but sometimes people have to be checked and if you know that you are gonna confront him go ahead and call the police before incase he acts up they can be on the backburner if he does try and kill you ither way. juvy will teach him hes not so tuff. when your locked up with 30 other kids that think they are bad asses all of them get a dose of reality.
2006-09-03 15:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by xashcroftx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy , plant drugs or better yet a gun on him then drop dime (call the cops) when he's near a school and presto !!!! he's the states problem, prison is great for 11 year olds !
2006-09-03 15:46:13 · answer #11 · answered by Russell B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋