ok this guy at work started flirting with me a couple days ago. which is fine if it wasn't for the ring on his finger. the worst thing is that his wife is my supervisor and shes pregnat. awkward huh. on friday he asked me if i wanted to drink a soda with him on break. i said ok since a lot of us co-workers do that. well anyways how do i let him know im not like that? i mean i do find him attractive and i do get nervous around him, but i would never do or have anything with him. help!!!
2006-09-03 15:07:16 · 14 answers · asked by Lightmg1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
k first you need to sit and talk with him about the situation find out his intentions. maybe hes just a friendly guy. i have been with my gf for about a year now i have never cheated on her i just like to talk and have fun. just because he wants to have a drink with you doesnt mean he is cheating on his wife. if it turns out he is cheating on her talk to him and see if u can help. if it is unavoideble tell his wife
2006-09-03 15:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to make a stand, even at the risk of displeasing him. You need to make it clear your views against any form of adultary (whether it is sex or simply provoctive flirting) and tell him that he has made you uncomfortable. By doing this, you will make a stance and have no risk of in-advertantly leading him on. Plus as an added bonus, if this is witnessed, then in the future when the wife finds out, she can't be pissed at you for doing what was right.
2006-09-03 22:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by Vicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know he is flirting with you and you still went to have a soda with him.........Not a good move, stay away from him it will be nothing but trouble for you, you know how to give the cold shoulder without saying anything.
2006-09-03 22:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid him and turn down ANY social request he makes. You do not want to get caught in the middle of a situation like this!
2006-09-03 22:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him, but take a few other workers with you! Don't be alone the 2 of you, and always have an alibi!
2006-09-03 22:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by cheeky_beth_62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont have breaks with him or anything just keep the conversations to a minimum even though he is cute he does have a wife with a baby on the way...
2006-09-03 22:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this situation! Back off, dont flirt back with him. Dont give him any signals that says " hey i want you" .. & the guy may not be flirting with you. Guys have different perspectives on flirting then us girls do. but then again he prolly was. Just stay away!..dont ruin their family!..
2006-09-03 22:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by chels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to say just that to him.let him know right from the get go that nothing will ever happen. if he keeps it up threaten to tell his wife. good luck Im sure she would like to know that her husband is a ceeeeezzzzball.
2006-09-03 22:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u, i would be quite cautious. i've got the same sorta thing going on but urs is much worse. all i can really say is don't do anything to make u lose ur job.
2006-09-03 22:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him up front that you're not interested in anything like that. If he continues, tell his wife.
2006-09-03 22:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋