I am a gay man. There is a woman who is interested in me and keeps making passes at me. I work with her and she knows that I am gay. What do I do?
2006-09-03 15:04:52 · 14 answers · asked by Nick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her that you are strictly dickly and to back off. Her vagina holds no appeal to you whatsoever. I'm guessing she thinks she is all that and can make you straight.
2006-09-03 15:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes the type of girl that flirts with everyone but dont mean anything by it. maybe she has a crush on you. even though your gay and all maybe you should give it a try first thing for everything.. its a normal thing for a girl to like you thats what is supose to happan. but anyway if it bothers you then talk to her about it and explain that you just want to be her friend
2006-09-03 22:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHAHAHAHAHA. srry. x) well..in your case, I would tell her straight out that you are gay and do not like women. see..women would be angry if you said you liked another woman, but you like another man. hopefully she will understand and stop making passes at you. i find this question funny. no offense. i have a friend who had the same thing going on too.
2006-09-03 22:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by Emily F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are not interested in her personal advances and you want to keep your relationship at a professional level. Otherwise if you feel experimental give her a chance and see what happens!
2006-09-03 22:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Curious One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just plainly tell her that you're not interested in her for what she wants. Try telling her that he would value her friendship if she's willing to give it, but nothing more than that. And believe me, girls are very understanding when a guy tells them that.
2006-09-03 22:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that her advances to u are unwanted as u are a gay man if it keeps up tell the manager
2006-09-03 22:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it, treat it with a sense of humor. Tell her to get a sex change. Keep saying 'no' as many times as it takes. Introduce her to your 'boyfriend.' Don't miss an opportunity to tell her how hot you think your favorite male actor is.
If all else fails, give her a tape of you having sex with men. (j/k!)
2006-09-03 22:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Nickster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her and tell her without hurting her that u arent interested in her! tell her that u would rather just be friends!! and if ur gay that is awesome!! i love gay guys!! i love to hang out with them cause they r much cooler than staight guys! you rock!
2006-09-03 22:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by he_done_me_wrong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give her a chance and see how it works. If you don't like it, stay the way you want to be.
2006-09-03 22:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by mck_kelley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's really upsetting, keep in mind this is sexual harrassment. Tell your HR director or your supervisor.
2006-09-03 22:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by hausfrau31557 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋