2006-09-03 15:02:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, being totally in love with a guy has nothing to do with threesomes. You have to want them as well. Love doesn't make you want to do them. Believe me. You have to really be into them to do them.
2006-09-03 15:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be very comfortable with your relationship to ever ever bring this idea up. A woman does not need to prove her love to a guy by having a 3some. But, if it is something you both enjoy! Never ever force this on your girl. And, make sure she knows that you respect and love her for her not for having a 3some.
2006-09-03 15:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by Miel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You can only do it if you are very open in a relationship. Most relationships get ruined with this scenario. i think he is just being a guy, (and I am one). I have had a 3some, with my brother, and my girlfriend, and I. The only difference, is that I knew, the difference between Love and Lust. I was 40 when I did this. DO NOT DO IT
2006-09-03 15:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Garbage. I will answer your question with an equal question unless of course you think a woman is not equal to a man when it comes to opportunities or pleasure. Is it true that when a man really loves his gal, he'll do a 3some with her with another dude?
2006-09-03 15:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by carme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm....no, I think for most women, if they really love their guy, they want only him and would be jealous of another woman. Asking her to do that would only be hurtful and she would start having doubts about his future fidelity.
If you try to emotionally blackmail her into it, by saying things like "if you really loved me, you'd do this for me" it will backfire on you and you run the risk of her leaving you.
Of course, if she's very open minded, turn about is fair play LOL if you get your threesome, will she be able to have a 3some with you and another guy?
2006-09-03 15:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by supersuzym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my hubby but I would never have a 3some with another woman. For them same reasons he would never have a 3some with me and another guy
2006-09-03 15:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has things they might be willing to try under pressure, and things they will NEVER try. Perhaps in this situation the woman can come up with something she really wants her man to do, and then they can be even. Discuss the reason the man wants the threesome, and why the woman doesn't, and don't forget the issues of whether it's considered cheating, and of safer sex.
2006-09-03 15:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by zandyandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! It doesn't matter how much she loves him - if doing a threesome isn't her cup of tea then she won't, or shouldn't, do it. Nor should her man expect her to! I've loved all of my partners passionately but I wouldnt have a threesome. Not with a girl anyway! I might be persuaded to have one with another guy but other than that - having a threesome is something BOTH partners should be wanting. I reckon that if someone really loves their partner then they shouldn't pressure them do anything along those lines that they are not comfortable doing. I hate all this "If you really loved me you'd do it" crap. I mean hey - If you really loved me you wouldn't make me do something I really don't want to, and am not comfortable, doing. :)
2006-09-03 15:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by ellyfantastic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and one of the reasons I left my ex of 6 years is that he kept insisting that he wanted that, and I wasn't into that. He even tried bribary. I finally said that if he wanted another woman, then fine, he could find her. I look at threesomes as a guy wanting more than what he has.
2006-09-03 15:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by amyashburn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE REAL... absolutely not true by any stretch of the imagination! I don't think the same guy that asks that of his girlfriend would want to hear that his little sister in engaged in such activities... or his mother for that matter!
2006-09-03 15:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋