This girl I used to kind-of date broke up with her current boyfriend and has been practically all over me since then. Rebound-style. She keeps asking me if I could have sex with any girl in the school, who would it be? I want to answer "You" but I dont want to seem too obvious. Any tips on how to answer to that?
2006-09-03 14:57:09 · 18 answers · asked by johnnyb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This girl I used to kind-of date broke up with her current boyfriend and has been practically all over me since then. Rebound-style. She keeps asking me if I could have sex with any girl in the school, who would it be? I want to answer "You" but I dont want to seem too obvious. Any tips on how to answer to that?
PS. I'm a senior in high school. For the lady that said I have an education to think about..... not really. Great advice guys, I enjoyed most of the replies.
2006-09-03 15:08:40 · update #1
That is about as obvious as you can get. If she is asking those kind of questions though then she wants you to say her name. Just tell her, and you will be happy you did.
2006-09-03 15:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First congradulate yourself and maybe sit there for a whole 30 seconds contemplating your situation (maybe drink some champaign?). Then you say, "Well I didn't realize you had a candidate. I guess I could make room in my schedule. How does 7:10-7:14 sound. That gives me and my mystery love a full minute and a half foreplay. Why don't you just send her over to my place Friday?"
2006-09-03 22:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Subjective philosophy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's definitely wanting to hear you say that it would be her. If you want a long term relationship with her take things very very slow just to see if she loses interest or if she's in it for the long haul. To answer her question, just tell her you're not going to just have sex with anyone, that you're looking for more than just sex, it has to be the right person, and you need to time to make sure it's the right person.
2006-09-03 22:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Tender Hearted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you playing hard to get? What is the benefit. If all she wants is sex you likely want be with her very long anyway. So doublebag it, play the game, get laid a few times and enjoy yourself.
2006-09-03 22:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really like SOOTY CAT's answer. Thing is, she 'made a mistake' and is now coming back to you as yes... a rebound. Give her that and let her know that, you really liked her once but her actions have or are turning you off.
If she wants you.... she'll brush off and come again. But if you wanna just hi it... then do it ;-)
2006-09-03 22:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by BaByHugH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jb... dooo it DOOO ITTTT : ) shes playing mind games and yeah shes on the rebound but u have to relax (like in zoolander....) and just go for it take a risk take the plunge and have some funnn
and go do some homework for god sakes ur in high school!
2006-09-03 22:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by Kim J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is hoping that you will say that you want her. I think you should just be honest and tell her. Who knows, it may be the start of a great relationship.
2006-09-03 22:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah.. just tell her what you want to say. Life too short to play games. Just let it all go and fess up to her. Obviously she wants you, you want her.. so.. just tell her how you feel. Might not get a second chance.
2006-09-03 22:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games with her just tell her u would like to have sex with her.
2006-09-03 22:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Educated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even provide her with a verbal answer. Simply start to unzip her top!
:-)
Actions speak much louder than words.
2006-09-03 22:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by cheeky_beth_62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋