I'm tied between my two loves in life.
guy #1----- The one I have lovedfor two years, Justin. He makes me smile when he looks my way. His eyes sparkle when I talk to him. I just wanna kiss him everytime i see him
guy #2----- My best friend's ex boyfriend, Brendon. He treats me like his girlfriend. Everywhere we go he has his arm around my waist, and the way he touches me just drives me crazy(in a good way). He kissed me so passionatly. He hugs me so affectionatly. But he has never asked me out
Who should i go for? Is Justin scared off because he sees me with Brendon?
2006-09-03 14:55:17 · 31 answers · asked by Simply Amazing...* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should definately go for the guy who makes you feel good in every way, but yet is more thoughtful and less visual. Try not to scare any of the two away, because you may be missing out on one or the other. Try to get to know Brendon a bit more, since you've known Justin for a few years, you probably know more about him. Also try to spend equal time with both, and see which one you find more favor in. Then, let your heart do the decision.
2006-09-03 14:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1
2006-09-03 22:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by johnnyb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your "In Love" with Justin, but have a real chemistry thing going on with this other guy....I would be wary of jumping the gun try looking at the big picture
You have a lot of time, effort, and emotions put into your relationship with Justin, right? are you ready and willing to throw that all away on a feeling that this other guy maybe a little more shall we say "exciting"...ask yourself why are you letting this other guy treat you like a girlfriend? have things with Justin gone downhill...are you in a stale area in your relationship...are you lacking something that is making your eye wander?
Another thing to think about is how will your friend take you going after an old flame of hers....Obviously they broke up for a reason? what was it that caused the break-up? would that or could that happen to you if you went for this other guy? Is it worth possibly losing a friend over it? Would you be gain anything positive??
I think I would, If I were you, stick with what I know.... There is way too many people that could in the end be hurt and as we have all learned in the end you will be the one alone and wondering what went wrong........
2006-09-03 22:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Erin O. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Justin
2006-09-03 22:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why choose? Try them both out! Only time will tell. But if it were me, I'd stick w/Justin. Seems like Brendon is probably and infatuation/lust type situation.
Good luck!
2006-09-03 21:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by CluelessOne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule #1: Best Friend's ex's are off-limits. Regardless of how great he makes you feel. He is bad news going from one flower to the next....and so close by too...can't he roam away from the garden? Love is a tricky thing grasshopper.
2006-09-03 21:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by Clock Watcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think that justin might feel that your going out with brendon wich it sounds like it to me to maybe brendon thinks your his girl????? but it seems like you like brendon more then justin cause you talked more about him then yu did justin. which one treats you better?? its really hard to say which one cause dont really know either of them. but i think you may like justin more then brendon or you wouldnt be worried about him being scared off by brendon
2006-09-03 22:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1
2006-09-03 21:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a case of love vs lust.
Guy #1 sounds like love.
Guy #2 sounds more like lust.
Justin gets my vote.
2006-09-03 21:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by Gemma S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go with Justin because long time loves usually last and also your best friend may get angry if you date her ex.
2006-09-03 21:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋