please help me? its a long story so bear with me?

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it all started when jake, my brothers friend, ate dinner at our house. thats when i knew i liked him. i would always feel nervous and try to act cooler around him. he liked me back. this was in feb. and by memorial day weekend, we both dropped heavy hints about our feelings for each other, and obviously, he knew, i knew. my cousin brittney and friend kacey, one day, were questioning him about it. he wouldnt admit it for a while, but then finally he did, but said he wanted to wait until high school to date me. kacey practically broke his wrist and finally said he'd ask me out. i said yes, obviously. the only places we would see each other were the pool and my house occasionally. we souldnt do much at the pool except talk since i was very self-concious about my body in a bathing suit so i wouldnt move around much. we would hug occasionally, and he tried to kiss me 3 times, but i didnt get the hint. thats what i wanted for my birthday, but i didnt tell him that.
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i told him i wanted a necklace. of course, i told my friend haley i wanted a kiss and she told him, so he kept trying me to say it. i didnt because a kiss cant be planned like that. finally he said what haley told him, and he said he'll be at my house the next day to give me my birthday present. he didnt, obviously. we didnt bring it up again. but a couple days later, my actual birthday, he told me he needed to talk to me. i said okay, and he said he felt that i didnt want to do anything with him. i objected immediately, but was lost for words. he didnt break up with me, but an hour after that, i invited him to go to great falls with me, but he couldnt. i went alone. things were a bit dull after that. 10 days later, the 1st day of summer, he broke up with me. he wanted to be friends with me. i didnt talk to him for 2 months. finally i said i wanted to be friends too and since then he's dropped heavy hints that he still likes me, i have too. i dont really know where to go from here now.

Answer 1

Wow. Compelling Crap.

Answer 2

You are so right. A kiss can not be planned. So just kiss him when ever you want to. He will not pull away. It does not matter about the way you look, so just remember to always feel good about yourself. As soon as you don't like your body, others will follow that. Show that you have confidence. Your friend probably shouldn't have got involved the way she did. You knew he liked you and he knew you liked him. You both should of handled it the way you wanted to. No one should pressure a relationship on someone no matter how bad you think you want it. Let it come naturally, and that will make it so much more worth it. This is your relationship and his. Pressure from friends can only ruin it for you.

Answer 3

well really unless you want to run in the same problem and repeat history, I suggest you figure out how to be more comfortable around him, I mean he doesn't want a shy girlfriend, no guy does. So well if you are willing to be more open around him, and you are, then well I say give it another shot, it's worth trying again, maybe alot has changed and it will work better this time, just give it a shot and see what happens. You both like each other alot, it's really worth it

Answer 4

First kisses are usually awkward especially when it happens in a public place.Poor kid.By not picking up on his signals you've wasted some time but you're getting a second chance it sounds like so this time don't blow it!
You're going to have to pay closer attention to him when you're together.If you feel self-conscious in a situation try to steer him to a quiet corner where you won't be so out in the open and you're more comfortable and can give him your full undivided attention so you won't miss his trying again.

Answer 5

I have a neighbour like that. It grew to develop into out he replaced into mentally ill. I phoned the police and they suggested they couldn't do some thing until eventually he actually threatened me or did some thing to me. This replaced into after he actually got here to my door shouting and swearing at me in the front of my very youthful son who replaced into scared an on my birthday too. He has executed all way of alternative issues too. this stuff extremely dissatisfied me i won't be able to say what they were yet i think ashamed. this isn't because I did some thing/some thing incorrect notwithstanding that is too undesirable to say. He also tried kicking in my different neighbours' door who has toddlers. He revealed a letter caution her to pass out! She phoned the police an all they did replaced into pay a visit. ought to this female be ill or do you imagine she is basically previous lonely and somewhat green with envy?!

Answer 6

whoa girly... thats quite a story! i know from experience how hard it can be to like a friend.... if you dont mind me asking, how old are you? u can answer me by email at [e-mail]. but if you are young it can be weird to be going out with anyone. also if you like him, im all for screwing the hints and asking him out yourslef and then just kiss HIM if it feels natural. if not, then drop it.
hope my answer helped!

Answer 7

aww thats so sweet! ok well if u still love him and u know he still loves u .. u should get together 1 day and talk about it.tell him that u care alot about him let him understand how u fell. hopefully he will get together with u again..so goodluck!

Answer 8

heck lady ask him out.dont wait for him to sk you out again,and btw watch the signal his gonna kiss u.

Answer 9

Act like you are not interested in him. It will drive him crazy..

Answer 10

well...seems to me that you both like each other. so whats the problem??