i still talk to my ex and we are working on getting back together. he says the only way we could get back together is if he sees a change in me, as if i was this new person. he never calls me i always have to call him and he says he wants to meet up to hang out but it doesnt happen. i know that there is this other f*****g b***h who he talks to cuz they have been friends 4 a long time and i know she likes him. wat should i do? im so afraid that they are gonna start to go out. am i wasting my time? should i hang in there or just give up?
2006-09-03 14:41:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run like the wind. This has "bad future" written all over it. Why would you want a relationship filled with words like "ex" and "what if" and "I'm afraid"? That is not the foundation to build a solid relationship. There isn't just this one person in the world. Obviously, he is not the right one. There are so many red flags screaming at you to help you realize that this is your chance to tell him "You are not worthy of the person that I am and the man who is will respect me in every way." Kick him to the curb. Mr. Right is waiting and can't "knock on the door to your heart" if you have a sign hanging on that reads "trying to work it out with an ex who spends time with other women and shows me no respect."
2006-09-03 14:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Chick with pets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, get a welcome sign tattooed to your forehead because you are getting walked on!!! He sounds like a real piece of work, If you want a life of conforming to his ideal woman, while constantly sitting at home while he repeatedly cheats on you than by all means continue with this relationship...But I would, If I were you, go find another man who is going to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
2006-09-03 21:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Erin O. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a runaround to me. Why should you be the only one to change? Chances are he has a lot of things to change also. Don't waste any more time. Let him go. Find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.....
2006-09-03 21:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, don't waste time with this dunce! There's other guys that are probably way better then him. You're just wasting your time and life obsessing with him. If you know that he might like this other girl cause he's been friends with her for years, don't bother. I think he is just messing with you. Go out with other people who will treat you better than him=)
2006-09-03 21:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by tiff92purple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find someone else. Don't chase after this guy. It's over. Sorry for the pain you may go through now. There is the rest of your life ahead of you full of great things for you.
2006-09-03 21:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Rez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him ok? he knows u want him and he has arm candy so he dosent care wether u come back or not bec hes happy and comfy right now. so hon go find someone eles its not worth uer time.
2006-09-03 21:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by blueducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chalk it up to experience and move on. If he was interested he would initiate some calls and not wait for you to call him.
2006-09-03 21:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he doesn't like the real you. Ask him what changes he wants to see and ditch him if you don't like them.
2006-09-03 21:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is already boinking her. Good going!
2006-09-03 21:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him and move on
2006-09-03 21:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by me too 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋