Ok my boyfrined and I have been having sex, alothgh we were both virgins at older age, ok about 2weeks ago he sticks it in and yea off cousre it hurts but last week he stuck it in again and it still hurts, today he stuck it in and it still hurts it hasn't star tfeeling good is something worng with me or his this normallly is it going to start feeling good.
2006-09-03 14:40:28 · 7 answers · asked by !!yentruoc!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sheesh i guess it takes a man to give a direct answer. everyone seems to be working around the answer by saying maybe you 'aren't ready'.. what the hell does that mean? the question you need to be asked is 'are you getting good n wet n slippery first?' if not maybe you should try using some lubricant.
2006-09-03 14:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by Roger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you two do anything BEFORE he sticks it in? What sort of pain is it? Is it a friction pain (ie. not enough lubrication) or is it painful from the inside? Maybe you should see a doctor to see that everything is OK.
Not to scare you but ovarian cancer is something is hard to diagnose. Take it from me. I had it and didn't know because I wasn't having sex and it was too late for me and at 18 I had a complete hysterectomy.
2006-09-03 14:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, it's not just a matter of "sticking it in". There needs to be fore play and stimulation to get you ready for him........ do some research on line or at the library. It can and does feel good I promise when done right.
2006-09-03 14:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a thing called (fore play) This is when you get each other worked up, warmed up, and ready. Without this you will be dry and tight making sex uncomfortable for you. Also, without this he is not making love to you he is just screwing you...
http://www.foreplayprimer.com/
2006-09-03 15:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by Shawnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
advice is put that thing away u can get someones eye out
2006-09-03 14:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by nathan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is trying to enter you to fast or to hard, tell him to slow down & make sure your ready for him,
2006-09-03 14:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he maybe a lil too big for you???? maybe that's it ......... or you're doing it a lil too much.. could be anything...
2006-09-03 14:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by bugojanka69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋