You're seeing a guy, not exactly dating him more a bit of fun/hanging out/sleeping together/but being friends, you dont exactly have the best luck with men so this will do for now and he is very sweet so it is really helping being around him BUT he isnt exactly "well equipped" in the downstairs department so things in the bedroom are pretty boring.
Sadly thats the main focus of what your 'friendship' is based on, so do you keep seeing him or call it quits OR work around it?
2006-09-03 14:38:28 · 13 answers · asked by artymusicfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would keep seeing him until i met the right man!! Ha ha!
I would make it crystal clear that our relationship wasnt serious so as not to give him false hope, and if he was cool with that i would carry on with things as they are.
Sex is an important part of a romantic relationship and if that wasnt going anywhere, then there would be no point in trying to make it work... when it clearly isnt.
2006-09-03 14:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by PEP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You call it quits! If that is really what your "friendship" is based on and this guy is not living up to the expectation you move on. Trust me; if it were the other way around he would drop you in a New York minute! Move on.
2006-09-03 22:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would quit having sex with him - wat's the point any way? but keep him as a companion for going out and spending time. if u re not in love with him and sex sucks why should u suffer? tell him u re in love with some other guy so can't have sex with that one but he is a very good friend, so u don't want to lose him as a friend.
2006-09-04 01:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is said that it only takes 3 inches to satisfy a woman. Saying that, there are other ways of doing it without using the downstairs area. Such as foreplay, toys etc, etc
2006-09-03 21:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How does he feel about you? if he feels the same way as you with regards of the friends with benefits situation, well, take the inniciative to help him to work with what he has, teach him some moves that will make him feel good about himself in bed
2006-09-03 21:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by LaChica P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't use him until another comes along.....sex isn't everything. It may be important to you now, but it won't be always.He seems to be a good guy who cares about you and probably has a lot to offer and in common w/you. Weigh the other good points in this relationship.....
2006-09-03 21:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sammyleggs222 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
quit !! u got nothing 2 hold on 2 .
2006-09-03 22:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
teach him how to work it. if downstairs aint happening there might be better equipment upstairs(tongue)
2006-09-03 21:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by bx824 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it quits ! This will save any future heartache I think.
2006-09-03 21:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Sky 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im male soz
2006-09-03 21:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by tiz_master_one 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋