why is it that all guys seem to want from me is sex. i mean im a attractive person but for some reason all the guys i meat just want in my pants, none of then want a relationshit they just want sex...i want more than that but it seems like all the guys who are attracted to me are only interested in sex.
2006-09-03 14:26:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a Guy BTW.
Not all guys are like that. You're looking in the wrong places. You have to show a guy that you're not just another "night". You have to show that your personality is better than your looks. If you're looking for a longer term relationship, you have to date around and find someone that doesn't ask to have sex until after the 3rd date at the very minimum.
Personally I'll break up with whoever if I find that I'm only attracted to her looks/her body. But then again at this point I'm looking for something a bit more serious.
2006-09-03 14:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are 2 sides to a coin... calm down, maybe you are choosing the wrong guy to go out with!! Body language, dress sense, time you spend, all matter a lot... after all just the brashest of guys would take sex right away , most chaps tend to study you over time and then come to a decision; start things would be not to tell your friends your old stories; return home on time; meet more often at your parents place or public places and so on; relax, take it easy and review your life - try to see where you could have gone wrong earlier... Else change your neighbourhood :-)
2006-09-03 14:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are or how much experience you have had with guys but their not all jerks. I kept having the same problem for a while I had to change the type of company I was keeping you know like the type of people I hung around with. That does help some.
2006-09-03 14:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by Linda R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't give the jerks sex, the jerks will go away. Leaving room for nice guys with the same goals as you to meet you. For all you know, there's a great guy who's been waiting to ask you out, but was intimidated by all the "jerks" hanging around you!
2006-09-03 14:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would say that probably you should just take a break from guys i mean unless they tell you that that will never be the case and when the right guy comes along be glad you took my advice and waited for the right guy to come along and in the end everything will be alright don't worry and trust me not all the guys in the world are jerks it can sometimes be us that are jerks that happened to me once and i thought they were the jerk but really i was the one that was the jerk!!so just let things loose for a while and everything will be ok!!
2006-09-03 14:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem and then when I date one of them for more than a month and I want to have sex with them to they freak out. Guys are all the same well most of them the other ones hide from us the attractive girls.There just shy.
2006-09-03 14:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put your true intentions out there. i'll try not to sound like a jerk, but if you dress, and act like a hooker you'll be treated as such. if your tough, then you'll scare them. if you show them what you really want, then you'll get what you deserve. try talking to the shyist people, if you wor with a person. they'll learn, i don't know your age, but if your a teen, guys have no control of what they're doing, they're stupid. it's like a deer in a set of headlights, or an animal with a shiny object. they'll obses and want more. the shinyer the more obsesed they are.
2006-09-03 14:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by jt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are all girls slut.s?
Don't generalize not all guys are like that. Point made.
In fact, you probably scare the worth-while ones off with that attitude.
You're probably getting those type of guys, because those are the guys you're going after. Only go for looks, you're going to get guys that are interested in sex, look to their personalitly not their face.
Also, pay attention to how you dress. What you use for bait determines what you're going to catch.
2006-09-03 14:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its maybe the way you dress. Try to dress less revealing and inviting.
And your circle of friend environment, definitely need a fresh new ground.
Dont worry, plenty of good men out there available. You are just in wrong neighbourhood.
Hang out and join any social and sports activities instead of nightlife, you knew what kind of people you'll meet there.
All the best! :)
2006-09-03 14:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey not all the guys are that way....
come on.... i am not looking for sex each time i meet a girl...i have been looking for relationship... i personally think sex is much better if you have a relationship with that person.
p.s. : you were just at the wrong place and at the wrong time...
2006-09-03 14:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by matt0424 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋