i have a blind spot with this guy. like anything bad passes over, and i just see how happy he makes me, how much he makes me laugh, how we can talk about anything, he is in love with me. i do know that, which is what makes it hard. he has told his family about me. and one time i was supposed to meet them i couldn't. i was married when we met (loveless) and he helped me get away. over two years i fell hard in love with him. there will always be other girls. he talks on the phone to me and messages them, texts them. i know he wants to be with me and thinks i mess him around by not going to live with him for good. but when it comes to it. i know there will always be 5-6 other women. and it is gonna take away from me. i feel right now like i'm pouring love at him and getting half back. i just dont know how to bite the bullet and go. every time i try it's like 'i'll stay another day' we are supposed to move in together this week though. i know he saw a girl this weekend. i'm so sad with it.
2006-09-03 14:15:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all dump his *** he is a player and he is only goin to play with u so i think u should get the pain over with and not be sad over him he is a waste of time so dont be sad be glad and get another guy and mabe he will realize how much he misses u and stop seein other women and if u get another guy and he does nothin bout it he doesnt love u u were just another girl to him
take mi advice i know what im talking about beleive me
2006-09-03 14:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know that he isn't going to be faithful. With that goes he will never be a good husband or father. Is that what you want? He is making you sad now, get over him and move on.
2006-09-03 15:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy or what? Why in the world would you move in with a guy who has other women. I think perhaps you are a little insecure. Time to move on.
2006-09-03 14:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the answer. your intuition is a strong thing. Trust it , trust and believe in yourself. If you were in a bad relationship before him, he served a purpose, to get over the other one. Now get on with it, and start new!
2006-09-03 14:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by driver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen sme1 has been there wid u for so long...has helped u in ur worst times...y in dis world wud he cheat on u ?
he wud've just slept n walked away...like others...
the other girls can be friends...
u shud ask him if he wud make u meet his friends..( girls)..if he says SURE..den no point of doubting on him...just meet em...n be comfortable...& if he does not...den its no use 2 be wid him..for he might be playing a game wid u...
2006-09-03 14:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay and continue to be abused/ignored/cheated on..etc
or get some self esteem and leave
2006-09-03 14:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being played get out
2006-09-03 14:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by Maravista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im confused
2006-09-03 14:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by circaskater56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋