I was wondering if any of you have sex with your friends and both of you are cool with it.
Reason why i have these 3 guy friends and we are real close and we have occasional sex. we are cool with it and they dont get jelious of eachother. My sister found out and called me a big sl)). I have never done anything bad never did drugs ect., but i am a very sexual person. I dont have time for relationships.
2006-09-03 14:13:25 · 18 answers · asked by steph g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop doing it. Sex is not meant for that.
2006-09-03 14:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by flowersandhearts 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well your sister was right. You are a sl**! Of course the guys aren't jealous of each other. Why should they be. ALL THREE of them are sleeping with a sl**! So why you might think you have the upper hand in things, you don't. They're not your true friends. You are convenient! You come with no strings attached. You are what me and my friends call a "dial a hoe". One call. And she get's you off! Its not that you don't have time for a relationship, for you are just damaged goods. And no guy in their right mind, want damaged goods. So it looks like the THREE guys you are sleeping with are your best choose, for a sl**! I hope you use protection, with all your encounters. A lot of girls like you, come into my clinic with all kinds of STD's and some are even pregnant. Grow up, and try to do something with your life, besides f**k it up!
2006-09-03 21:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ty 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well if you have time to hang out and have sex with 3 different guys, then you have time for a relationship. I think calling you a sIut is a bit much, but not necessarily wrong.
What would you think of a guy who had sex with 3 of his female friends, but chalked it up to just "casual sex is fun" and "Im sexual and dont have time for anything esle".
2006-09-03 21:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by cognitively_dislocated 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes we can get so caught up in the moment that we don't really see what we're doing. Just think about it girl..it's a no brainer. These guys are using you...I'm sure they think you're a sl** (sorry), and they have zero respect for you. I'm sure they'd never want anything serious with you and just use you as their trash.
What you're doing is just straight up nasty, dangerous, and you're ruining your reputation. When you finally have time for a serious relationship, no one that knows of your past will want you.
You're letting these guys treat you like S**t. Why are you doing this. Please have some self respect and love for yourself.
2006-09-03 21:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by OOlala! 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not that you dont have time for relationship.
You had trauma of being hurt and rejected.
If you really value three guy friends of yours. Stop having sex with them.
Coz if one of them got STD, the rest will get it too.
Im sadly say this as a man. I dont value my friend if I'm willing to sleep with them.
High chance are, those three stick with you just bcoz you are beautiful and "easy" to get free sex.
Have value of your own body. Never too late to start a brand new life.
2006-09-03 21:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by J 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Enjoy it all now cause sometimes as you get older sex becomes harder to *** by, no pun intended.
We should all be so lucky to have friends like yours, all it is a means for pleausring without regrets.!!!!!
2014-03-06 17:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not in a relationship, and all of them permit it, there is nothing wrong with it.
If you were being unfaithful, then I would advise otherwise, but since its consent among different parties, there is nothing wrong with it.
Some people look down upon this behavoir, but there is nothing wrong with persueing your sexual desires as long as it is done with intergity.
2006-09-03 21:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
ah yeah.....your sister is right.
Geesh....and these guys know each other. You are their piece of trash. If you need that sort of buddy, keep it to one.
Your reputation will be in deep doooo dooo if you don't stop that now. What kind of respect do you have for yourself????
2006-09-03 21:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
sounds like disaster. do you take all 3 of them on at once?
i'd at least hope you are being save, and use protection, AND birth comtrol pill. i do not have sex with my friends (but i would if they let me)
and not to be mean or anything, but they are probably only your friends because you have sex with them....
be safe to yourself, and at least narrow it down to one you have sex with.
and how do i get on the waiting list?
2006-09-03 21:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if you don't have time for a relationship then you shouldn't have time for sex
2006-09-03 21:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by dalmation60 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋