This guy i fell in love with seduced three married women before me (i was married too) but he did care about all of them as friends. we were friends, nothing happened at all but gradually feelings developed and before i knew it i was in love with him. i even accepted that he would be with another woman in the begining. and i never felt that way before. we have a really emotional relationship. i know he is cheating, but i have heard him tell the girls that nothing more will happen, that he wants to be with me. one girl was trying so hard to be with him, she couldn't understand why he'd chose me. he wants to get married to me, start a family, for me to live with him. he tells these women that 'it's just a bit of fun' and i am his love. he doesn't know i read the letters. and i accepted what was in them. but now it comes to being serious with him, getting married and i cant do it. tried to end it before, it ends up in big drama. and he thinks it's my fault. i still love him deep.
2006-09-03 14:00:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to leave him! What he is doing to you is horrible!
2006-09-03 14:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsey H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
screw that butthole!!! You know you sound very weak and have self esteem problems..is that the way you want your children to see you? Married to a guy who cheats on you just for fun....What about your father...do you think your father would approve of him....do you think that this is what you mother had thought of when she imagined you being inlove....
He doesn't love you...if he really did...you (one woman) would be enough...it is bad enough it sounds as though he wrecked you r previous marriage...or was it you who did the wrexcking instead of doing the wifly duty of trying to keep it together...
I am not a judge....I know there are two sides to every story...no one wins when there is lying and deciet involved!
Dump this guy...he is bad news...throw his crap out and move on...NOW!!!! Way better guys out there!!!
I can't believe I am haveing to explain this to a functioning adult..it is sooo trivial!
2006-09-03 21:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by Skipper1974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to kick rocks. he will not change. what he's doing now he will continue. u can do better. break it off and get over it. so what if he wants to marry u and u love him find someone that isn't a dirt bag. and if he's sleeping with those other ladies u can get AIDS or something else is it worth ure life....
2006-09-03 21:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by ladyj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sounds like the perfect person to make a life commitment with.
I would say go for it he would never cheat on YOU.
yeah RIGHT.
2006-09-03 21:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would anyone want a cheater?
Tell him that he doesn't respect commitment and you are not interested in being with someone who isn't willing to be as commited as you are!
2006-09-03 21:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest and let them know how you feel. there is not easy way. read tips on relationships and more on this site
2006-09-03 21:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋