i'm 23 and ive been with this woman who's 25 for 2 years. weve had our problems with intimacy. she's just preoccupied with herself and doesn't seem to be open to intimacy anymore. she recently told me she needed a break. although i'm not fine with it i have to let it be. of course i'm bitter because of all the time i've put into this relationship only to be stiffed at the end. share your experiences and please give any suggestions to help me work through this
2006-09-03 14:00:26 · 10 answers · asked by BOOM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, you have a right to be bitter and to be hurt. You just need to allow yourself some time and don't fight the emotions just let them run their course. Believe me I have plenty of experience in this field, count yourself lucky that it wasn't like 9 or 10 years in my case and you found out that the person you loved wasn't the person you thought they were at all. It's going to suck for a while, no changing that, but just be strong and someone new will come along.
2006-09-03 14:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by cptv8ing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be bitter. Obviously it wasn't meant to be, or so far. This gives you time to reflect and see if she is the one you truly love. If not, move on and find the right person you want to be with forever. This should be enough to keep you from being bitter, its opened a new door for you, take it and see where it leads you.
2006-09-03 14:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
been there done that
all u have to do is to understand that u will go through alot of stages
stage one is bitter then angrey then getting even it differs from one person to another
here is a thought get into another relation with a girl that go through the same thing and tell her that she is ur rebound and if she accepts go for it after a while u will forget
2006-09-03 14:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can totally understand you being bitter. But when I was in this situation I didn't want to be with anyone that really didn't want to be with me. I just would cause too many problems in the long run.
2006-09-03 14:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by shominyyuspa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a little more time and she if she will get a checkup by a doctor at age 25 she could have a hormone problem keeping her from wanting sex,talk to her and see if she will agree to that.If she checks out OK then go from there.
2006-09-03 14:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to hang out with ur other guy friends more! enjoy time as a big group of friends together and talk abt ur guy things! or find some new hobbies or enjoy time by yourself alone at home or outside!
2006-09-03 14:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bitter is only hurting you.I know its very difficult but you deserve better, let her go so that you can go on with your life.
2006-09-03 14:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about joining a club or taking up a new hobby...
2006-09-03 14:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU REALLY HAVE TO PRAY BECAUSE U DON'T WANT TO BE BITTER THEN YOU'LL END UP CARING XTRA BAGGAGE IN THE NEXT RELATIONSHIP
2006-09-03 14:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by lilsis2576 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u jsut do it i mean ur future dates dient do u like the one who did u bad did so dont take it out on them
2006-09-03 14:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋