My best friend & I hooked up about 6 months ago. Everything was going great & then he decided he just want to put things on hold. I am about 4 years younger than him & still in high school. He told me he wanted to wait until i graduated. So I was like ok. I really don't see the difference between the two but anyways. We still do everything a boyfriend & girlfriend would do...Every now & then he gets really mad if I try to kiss him or hold his hand & he says things like "I don't want you to think I like you more than I do." When I make him mad he makes comments like " if you didn't do that then maybe I'd like you more." He says im everything that he always wanted except the fact that I am a little overweight. Since I've started to lose weight he has been acting like if he acts like he likes me still, then maybe I would stop. I don't know. I love him to death. & I know he loves me. Do you think I will ever "fit" into his perfect life?
2006-09-03 13:45:43 · 4 answers · asked by Kristen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No he isnt in college........he's with me all the time. When Im at school, he's asleep.....I get home from school we hang out for about two hours & then he goes to work & then I go to work. Its like this everyday. Some days he just wants to kiss me & hold me & then other days he's just so angry at me. He not seeing other girls, trust me I would know.... We still sleep together & everything ..thats why Im so confused. He's one of those guys that all together good.......doesn't smoke, drink, or cuss. He everything i've always wanted in a guy, so i just cant give up on him. If he didn't want me then why does he want me to wait?
2006-09-03 13:46:32 · update #1
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettiness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourseld. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then maybe there's still a chance u can improve. All the best to u.
2006-09-03 13:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont know dose he act like he wants to kiss you and stuff when u both are in public?I would just have to say that dont let him do anything with you! until...yeah the whole thing that he only kisses you when he wants to that all messed up! 4 realz i wouldnt let him if he gets mad sometimes when you want to kiss him ... tell him bye bye ! dont make him think that he can do whatever he wants ..
2006-09-03 20:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by TriNa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is afraid of making a commitment you should come straight out and ask him his feelings about you and why he wants to wait if he wont tell you or get real mad then he is probably hiding something from you
2006-09-03 20:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by tazzlane120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should run honey RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!!
2006-09-03 20:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋