ok, last night my bf, our friends emily and phil, and i all got totaly wasted. And last night all of us were haning out in the backyard, and being drunk i wanted to makeut with emily, but i guess she doesnt like makin out with chix or what ever, and my bf was smoking..so phil was there so after talking to my bf he told me that i could make out wih phil a little bit...so, i turn around and walk up to phil and start making out with him..like totally into it. and my bf said that he doesnt want me to do it anymore..so i told phil to go inside, and then i went it and we were making out again..really getting into it. Then my bf catches us..when he asked if i was making out with him..i said no. Remember i was totally drunk and i didnt know what i was doing..so me and phil started making out again on his bed this time he was feeling me up and starting to take off my clothes to have sex with me..now phil is my bf's best friend..
2006-09-03 13:29:01 · 18 answers · asked by inked_06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but i stopped him cuz i thought about my bf and i didnt want to hurt him...and that night my bf broke up with me..but wont tell me why..and hes mad at me cuz i lied about making out with phil. what should i do?
and ever since that night i kinda feel like i dont want to get back with my bf and that i want to start dating phil...but i still love my bf. I feel so ashamed..i am totally attracted to my bf's bestfriend, and i think about getting with him instead of back with my bf...what should i do??
2006-09-03 13:31:45 · update #1
the reason i made out with phil and almost had sex with him..could it be that i want to be with him insted of my bf?? cuz my bf is an asshole to me all the time..and phil it a very sweet person..and i do have to admit that i did want to make out with him & liked it even tho i feel bad about it..& i even wanted to have sex with him..but i didnt want to cheat, do i still love my bf or what?? i dunno
2006-09-03 13:36:33 · update #2
this is the first time i ever got totally wasted!
2006-09-03 13:51:06 · update #3
its variety only. enjoy.
2006-09-03 13:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to tell u this, but when u had a bf, its best to stay away from his friends even if ur both drunk, i know u were drunk but have control of what u do! and im so sorry that u two broke up! and if u start to phil, ur bf might be mad and maybe hurt phil...!!!
2006-09-03 13:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew what you were doing so don't give us that line of bullsh*t. Next time just invite everyone over for an orgy...then you can make out with emily and phil and your boyfriend can videotape it for the internet.
2006-09-03 13:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!!!!!!!first of all u need 2 no wich 1 u like better and then if it is phil i would wait (if it wuz ur first time and u wanted it to be special) because if u r as pretty as ur avatar (trust me im not gay im just tryin to help) then u r worth waitin 4.even if it is ur bf i would still wait.
2006-09-03 13:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by *just me*ur approval isnt needed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL all i can say is - if your b/f decides that he has had enough of you then it will be your own fault, & that goes for anyone who missuses alcohol, i CANT STAND people who drink like that, there are more deaths - accidents - & break ups through drink than i care to count as well as the affect it has on your system, it should be banned, have a read on the site i have sent you, THEN tell me its worth drinking,
2006-09-03 13:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even thing of getting with phil... what you both did was wrong but maybe you should take some time and let your bf calm down.. you should calm down too because you seem confused. It wouldn't be fair to any of you, and please stop drinking so much!
2006-09-03 13:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Alejandra J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if you really loved your boyfriend you would have never even thought about making out with someone else especially right in front of him regardless of what he said and no matter hoew drunk you were your boyfriend was probably just testing to see how much he could trust you. and if your thinking about going after your mans best friend you should break up with your boyfriend and leave them both alon if you dont your going to ruin their freindship too
2006-09-03 13:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by freckleface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really not a big deal. All of you were wasted and besides your boyfriend said it was okay so whatever. Did you and phil have sex?
2006-09-03 13:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you and phil are perfect for each other and it's your boyfriend's fault for letting it happen in the first place - but please don't blame the alcohol, you seem to remember today what happened yesterday - maybe you should watch the alcohol consumption - first you wanted to make out with the chick and then the dude - yikes, slow down
2006-09-03 13:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from Phil...stop drinking...
2006-09-03 13:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by Lorraine_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a question...
But nonetheless,
You and Phil were both in the wrong.
If I were your boyfriend, I would drop both of you and quick.
2006-09-03 13:34:15 · answer #11 · answered by sunsetsandpowerlines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋