we was together 10mos we broke up cuz he don't know what he want 1 moment he want to be with me the next he confuse and now I'm seeing somebody else and i just cant get over him, i keep thinking about him no matter what i do i cant get him out my head and i think he think about me to can somebody please help me
2006-09-03 13:17:00 · 8 answers · asked by THE 1 AND ONLY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anytime you're thinking about him, do something else. Read a book, do your homework, watch TV, anything that will fully occupy your mind. The hardest time is when you go to sleep, because you cant do anything, so just try REALLY hard to think about other things. Also when I'm having trouble getting over a guy, it's usually because I torment myself with thinking, "Maybe he still likes me." So I repeat to myself over and over, "He does not like you. He does not like you. He does not like you." If that's not your problem, maybe you should think of something else to repeat, like, "I do not want to be with him. I do not want to be with him." Or whatever. But mostly, give yourself time. You're not going to get over him overnight.
2006-09-03 13:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a hard thing to do when you've been with someone so long. I was with an ex for almost five years and when we broke up I was devastated. I use to think about him every second of every day and it seemed like it lasted forever BUT I eventually realized that I had to move on b/c it was obvious that he had.
It's a really tough hill to climb. I hung out with friends alot and spent more time with my family. I suggest anything that keeps you busy. It will help somewhat.
Good Luck!!
2006-09-03 13:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by ajd1bmf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just focus on who you are with. the new guy because you ex cant keep wasting your time one minute he wants to be with you then 20 min later he is confused just move on off of him it will be hard but you can do it
2006-09-03 13:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to really be with someone who can't make up his mind? Where is the stability in that? Try and stop thinking about him, get involved in other things, and make new friends.
2006-09-03 13:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a hot 1
2006-09-03 13:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone better. It may not seem like it right now but trust me you got to move on and concentrate on yourself.
2006-09-03 13:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no i like my exbf too i just dont no how to get over him either but it is on and off all the time well just dont think about just try to like about ur other man
2006-09-03 13:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him again.
2006-09-03 13:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋